As I decided to take the journey to getting to know myself better, one of the books that was recommended was Personality Plus so I bought it and did the test and made Jake do it too.
As it is often with these things, it’s hard to generalize and put people into boxes. People are more often shades of gray than they are black or white.
However, each of us did fit into specific sections more strongly than others and reading about my type and jake’s type and how we interact was really useful for me and I think it was/is for Jake too. It’s something I want to learn to keep in mind because it is a reminder that he is who he is and he is different than I am and that I don’t have to be embarrassed to be who I am and instead embrace my strengths and make good use of them.
I read this book years ago, when my husband and I were first married, and it has helped us over the years to really understand one another as different people and to not think “Oh, you’re just wrong. My way’s the only/right way.” LOL!