52 Things – Walk across the Golden Gate Bridge

We did this one a long time ago and I just never had the chance to share:

12. Walk across the golden gate bridge

This turned out to be a wonderful adventure. We drove up past the bridge and parked right at the end of it. Jake snapped a few photos of me with the kids. It was fantastic weather.

We had packed snacks for the kids and for us so as we walked by and snacked, I snapped photos.

I had, stupidly, forgotten to take my wide-angle so all the photos are with my 50mm.

It was really really really loud. Really loud.

And it took us a while to walk the entire bridge over and once we were on the other side the three of us were wiped and I dreaded that we had to walk back and get the car.

So while we waited, my super-hero husband ran back all the way, grabbed the car and came to get us.

Isn’t he awesome?

All in all, highly recommended. Absolute joy to do. And a memorable day.

52 Things – Find a reading group

One of the things I really wanted to do this year was to find a reading group.

51. Find a reading group

After several months into the year, I finally decided to start my own. I emailed a bunch of friends from work and we started. Around the same time, I also enrolled in Palo Alto Menlo Park mom’s group and joined their book club, too. And just recently I decided to try out the local library’s book club, too, but they then shut down abruptly, so that one didn’t work out. But then my friend Kathy started a “children’s and young adult book club” and since I have not read most of kids books I thought that would be fun!

So far the one I started has read:
– Let the Great World Spin
– When You Reach Me
– Lonesome Dove

Up Next: The Forgotten Garden

The PAMP one read:
– The Post-Birthday World
– East of Eden
– The Happiness Project

We’ve already picked the books for the next six months and they are:
– Of Human Bondage, by W. Somerset Maugham
– She’s Not There: A Life in Two Genders, by Jennifer Finney Boylan
– The Cookbook Collector, by Allegra Goodman
– Foreign Affairs, by Alison Lurie
– Cutting for Stone, by Abraham Verghese
– The Imperfectionists, by Tom Rachman

And finally, the list for the C.O.O.L. club (Children’s (Or Other) Lit) is:
– Phantom Tollbooth (Norton Juster)
– Island of the blue dolphins
– Peter and the starcatcher (Dave Barry and Ridley Pearson)
– Sisterhood of the traveling pants (Ann Brashares), Winnie leads/Kathy hosts
– Tales of a fourth grade nothing/Superfudge (Judy Blume)
– Ozma of Oz, Road to Oz (L. Frank Baum)
– The Secret Garden (Frances Hodgson Burnett)

And I am really enjoying all of them. Just being a part of a book club is something I really like having in my life.

52 Things – Take photos in a photobooth

I love photobooths. I can’t even explain why since they take crappy photos. But I do. Which is why I added this item to my list, I thinkL

37. Take photos in a photobooth

And a few weeks ago, I went in to work for some task and had to drag my kids along, too. When I got to main campus, I saw there were several photobooths and they were free! I couldn’t miss the chance!

The kids weren’t nearly as cooperative but I love them anyway. Especially the one in the middle all the way in the bottom.

Love them!

We also took some when Levent was here but I can’t seem to find those. When I do, I’ll add them here.

52 Things – Make art for the new baby

My wonderful brother in law Danny and his awesome wife Leila, had a beautiful baby recently. Like I did for my other brother and sister-in-law, I wanted to make a little piece of art for this baby:

33. Make art for the new baby

I didn’t have a lot of good ideas until I came across this and it was exactly what I needed to get me motivated and excited.

So I sat and did some of my own. Very imperfect ones:

then I added a house and stitched around it.

and then some clouds.

And here we are:

in a frame. sorry i couldn’t get a better shot. i really did try.

I am not sure they will like it and it’s ok if they don’t; I had a lot of fun making it.

52 Things – Spend a day by myself

It almost seems like forever ago, but I actually did this one only a few weeks ago:

26. Spend a day by myself

After reading Hand Wash Cold, I went to Karen’s webpage and saw that she had a Mother’s Retreat coming up in just a few weeks twenty minutes away from my house. So I thought it was almost crucial that I go.

(Look what it says on her computer screen.)

Unfortunately for me, I was so so very tired on the day I went that I did not pay as much attention as I would have liked. Having said that, it was an amazing day of soul searching. Reading. Sitting in the beautiful gardens of the temple. Walking meditation in a labyrinth. A little yoga. And some wonderful learning.

I had a brief talk with Karen on the walk back from the labyrinth to the room and I was able to tell her how much and how deeply her words have touched me and I was glad for that opportunity.

If you’re considering one of these Mother’s Retreats by Karen Maezen Miller, I would highly highly recommend it.

It was definitely worth my time and as much as I would like to say that I needed the time alone, I really really missed my family even in the eight hours I was gone. I love my family a lot and even if I am not paying full attention to them all times, I love being surrounded by them.

52 Things – Put together and teach my BOS BPS class

Early this year, I’d planned to teach a completely different BPS class but for some reason I kept putting it off and struggling to sit down and write it which is why I put this item on my list:

43. Put together and teach my BOS BPS class

But then I got the idea for this other class. A class where I could help people collect their stories and create a place to hold them so that when they want to sit and scrap, their stories are right there for them and they never have to struggle to find what to write about. If you know me, you know that I care about storytelling and about making your pages meaningful through telling stories.

And once I had the idea for this class, I was on fire. I wrote the whole thing in just a few days. I love teaching for BPS. I love teaching so much. Especially when it’s on a topic I care deeply about. So I am really really excited about this class.

I love teaching process classes way more than anything else because it is so customized. The goal is not for you to copy me but to come away with a skill of your own. With something that you can make yours, adapt to your life and use over and over again. It’s like the giving a fish vs teaching to fish thing. I like to take classes like that so I like to teach classes like that.

Have I mentioned I am really excited about this class?

And now it’s finally open for registration:

register here

This class focuses on four aspects of story organization:
1. Collecting: finding where your stories come from, what inspires you, how do you generate more stories?
2. Organizing: how do you sort your story ideas, what details do you want to make sure to get down on paper?
3. Storing: What’s the best way to store all these stories and details? Will you have a mini book to hold or do a system on the computer?
4. Using: Now that you have your new system, how do you use it? How do you make sure it’s a living, breathing system and doesn’t get stale. When you sit to scrap, how do you find the story you need or want?

I want you to know that I love reaching at Big Picture Scrapbooking. I love teaching. I pour my heart and soul into each of my classes. I try to make sure I am fully engaged and there and that each of my students walks away with exactly what they wanted out of the class. Money and time are both scarce resources and I don’t take either of them for granted one bit.

If you find yourself struggling with story ideas, having the stories around when you’re scrapping, having more stories, having better stories, or if you just want a good organizational system, I hope you’ll consider taking my class. I really tried to give it my very best. I think your stories are really important and they deserve to be told.

I am really excited about this class. I hope you are, too and I hope you come and join me.

52 Things – Make a Wreath

Here’s one I didn’t think I would tackle until December but here we are:

38. Make a wreath

I wanted to make an indoor wreath since I already have one on my house door that I love. I searched and searched for a long time and finally settled on this one that I love love loved.

Mine’s a bit different cause I stuck to mostly cone shapes. Not sure why, it spoke to me the most:

I did it mostly as I watched TV, just tore, folded and glued without too much thought.

here’s a bit of a closeup.

I love looking at it on my wall. It makes me happy which I guess means project accomplished.

52 Things – Create my own camera Strap

Since I bought a new camera, I had to do this one again:

13. Create my own camera strap

This time I just did my own little solution. I didn’t do the triangular edges and since the fabric I used is thin, I put a layer of batting underneath it. It’s nice and cushy now.

I love the colors and this fabric makes me happy.

52 Things – Finish Nathaniel’s Baby album

I wrote about Nathaniel’s album a long time ago, here. And now that he’s well past year one, I figured it was time to tackle this one:

53. Finish Nathaniel’s Baby album

The overall process I used for the album is this:
1. Some preliminary pages about expecting him and the test, etc.
2. Some pages about the day he’s born, his umbilical cord, etc.
3. At the beginning of every month, marking that month
4. From then on for every week, 6 photos and 1 layout to show photos for every day of that week.
5. At the end of every month, a page of notes about that month in his life (this needs more work for my book since i didn’t keep up with it well)

that’s it. So I planned to have photos for every day of his life and at least 52 layouts about his first year.

I ended up with 66 layouts since I did a bunch more as I felt like it. It got broken into 2 albums and honestly, It probably should be 3.

Here’s a look at one of the pages.

And here’s a small collage of all the layouts I did about the first year of his life. Most of them I’ve already posted. Some are coming up.

One more baby album down. I think I might go buy some more of the American Crafts Binder albums and break this one down to three albums.

52 Things – Draw everyday for a week

Here’s what I tackled this week:

9. Draw everyday for a week

For as long I can remember, I wished I could draw well. I still do. Watching people draw, this ability seems magical to me. Truly magical. I know it takes practice and time but I truly believe that some people have more inherent talent for it than others. Maybe it’s just a natural ability to see shadows and shapes and lines but either way.

I took a Paulette’s portrait class two years ago and even made a painting (two actually) but I have recently been a huge huge fan of Pam Carriker and when I saw that she was offering portrait lessons, I wanted to take it.

I told myself that I wasn’t going to paint until I practiced the drawing for a while first. So I decided to draw a face each night and here’s what I made:

The sad thing is that I don’t see any improvement from day to day. None at all. And some days, I regressed quite a bit.

But I need to practice a lot more. I think I should draw 100 faces and see if it gets better then. Maybe that will be my next project. Not a bad idea….

In the meantime, I plan to start the rest of her lessons today. The painting ones. I just went and bought my angular brushes yesterday and I am looking forward to playing with paint later today.

52 Things – Learn to Crochet

Here’s this week’s item:

44. Learn to crochet.

My first few attempts to learn to crochet were immediately aborted. I couldn’t find a video that was clear and kept messing up over and over again. And then finally I got lucky about ten days ago and found these amazing videos (thanks to this post) and they finally helped me unlock all I needed to know. So, then, I went searching for a doily which is all I’ve wanted to do.

I found these videos and here’s the motif I picked. And here’s my finished one.

a bit crooked but for my first project ever, not terrible.

Then I decided to get more adventurous and make a butterfly:

And finally I went back to this heart I’d bookmarked a long time ago and even did one of those (I used it on an upcoming catalyst which is why it’s glued to paper.)

I am still FAR from a crochet expert and have yet to join threads but it’s certainly a start and I do know how to crochet now.

52 Things – Do a Layout a Day for a Month

Here’s this week’s item:

58. Do a Layout a Day for a Month.

As opposed to many others on the list, this project started very spontaneously. I was reading the A Million Memories message boards and suddenly something prompted me to post that I was doing a layout a day project and would anyone care to join me. It was April 29. There was one more day before the new month was to start and I had zero planning. Normally, when I start a project, I tend to think about it a lot in advance. I make sure I am ready for the undertaking and I write down notes, etc. etc. This is usually my process because I am a big believer in keeping my commitments. Even silly ones that I made to myself. But it wasn’t the case with this one. It came to me out of nowhere and I remember thinking I wasn’t likely to actually go through with this one. I told myself I would take it one day at a time and see how long I could keep it up. Secretly, though, I thought I wouldn’t last more than a week.

Once I decided I was doing this, I did a few things to prepare:

1. I went through my drawers and picked out items that I’d bought recently or a long time ago that I’d meant to use but hadn’t. Papers and embellishments.
2. I went through my daily photos from the last few months and picked a bunch that told stories I knew I wanted to capture and pulled them all into a directory on my computer. I opened up a few and created different sized photos just to have more variety. I then printed about ten days’ worth of photos.
3. I went through several of the galleries I like to look at and saved layouts that spoke to me. It might be just a small detail or the entire layout.
4. I also made a small list of techniques I’d like to try. (the list was: chipboard, paint, tattered angels mists, spray paint(?), stitching, drawing, stamps) all of these were things I had at hand.

that’s all I did in advance.

Come day one, I just got up, picked one of my photos and picked a layout that inspired me and created something that was similar in my own way. Here’s the inspiration and may layout for day one:

The one on the left is by Maggie Holmes and as you can see, I copied the design pretty much straight on. I told myself that I wasn’t going to worry about having to come up with my own designs and the goal here was to scrap memories and use product I loved. Since this wasn’t for the design team, it was ok if the designs weren’t unique to me. So for the first few days I just picked layouts I loved and created my own versions of them.

But even as early as day one, some patterns started to emerge:

1. I discovered that I loved using colorful and long titles. Something I hadn’t really done before.
2. I remembered how much I loved using cardstock for my background.
3. I fell in love with color. Bold, bright, happy colors.

After a day or two of lifting, I did start liking to do my own thing so I’d do layouts my own way until I found myself stuck on uninspired at which point, I’d go back to my folder of inspiration.

About halfway through, I realized that I now had a completely different scrapping style. I am not sure how it evolved but I do know that getting up and scrapping every single day allowed me the freedom to explore new ideas and slowly find my own way.

Around day twenty or so, I made this list of things I loved and regularly used on my pages:
1. border, heart, and butterfly punches
2. bright colors
3. long titles with different stickers
4. hand journaling
5. paint or stitching
6. white cardstock backgrounds

One of the things I missed was journaling more and I knew I didn’t have enough time to write long computer-journaling and print and align like I usually did so I wanted an easier and more practical solution. I had a few journaling stamps but each came with a set of complications I didn’t like. I wanted something subtle and easy to manipulate. Just a few lines for me to be able to write straight.

Then I found this stamp:

and while the lines were perfect, I didn’t want that border on all my pages. Since it’s acrylic, I just carefully cut out the inside and mounted it on my clear mount and now I had six lines to stamp on my pages. If you look at my pages, you’ll see these little clusters of journaling all over. That’s thanks to this stamp.

Here’s a closeup:

So now I had my journaling solution, too and I was unstoppable. The most amazing thing that happened in this month is that I finally fell into my own scrappy style. And the reason I know this is because I can now sit and scrap pretty easily. It still takes me a while to put a page together but that’ cause I take too long initially picking papers etc. Once I have my little stash, things fall into place pretty quickly and naturally. And I love my pages most of the time and they feel like me.

I think 31 days of getting up and sitting down to scrap can have a profound effect in your scrapping. (at a minimum you get to scrap 31 memories, who can be sad about that?) Here they all are on my living room floor:

So, now that I’ve done this, here are a few pointers for those of you who might be interested in doing it, too.

1. Put together a stash. my stash came in very handy and I rarely went looking for other things.
2. Get all your photos and stories ready. And print the photos out and cut them.
3. Make an inspiration folder or pick a bunch of sketches to get you started. Have enough for the whole month so you don’t have to stress that you’ll run out.
4. Pick a time of day and do it then every day. I did mine first thing in the morning. I would nurse my son and then get to work.
5. Try to have a deadline by which to be done. I told myself I’d like to have my layout finished, photographed and posted by 8:30 am. Most days I did stick to it. I think first thing in the morning works better than at night. Even though I am a night person and I get more uninterrupted time at night, there was something magical about accomplishing something big and fun and artsy in the very beginning of your day that infused the rest of the day with more joy.
6. Post your layouts and tell people you’re doing LOAD. The encouragement and kind comments I got at on my blog, at AMM, 2peas, and Facebook kept me going. It was wonderful to hear all of them and gave me the strength to get up and scrap on the days I didn’t feel like it.
7. Don’t let yourself whine and don’t wait for inspiration. Just get up and sit at your desk and put the photos on the paper. You’ll be amazed at how quickly it comes together.
8. Decide quickly and just go with it. I often just glued a few things down and then built my layout around them. I could easily change my mind 100 times so it was best to just make one decision and then one more and then just go with it.
9. If you find that you’d like and could use some encouragement and help, try doing it with Lain. She runs layout a day several times a year (I think February, May and September) and many people who’ve done it love it. She emails you, there’s a Flickr group etc. etc. and the small amount of money you have to pay may help encourage you to see it all the way through.

And so here we are. 31 layouts:

I did immediately put them in albums once I was done photographing all of them.

This was a great exercise with profound benefits to me. I am really really glad I did it and I cannot recommend it enough. And in case you think I am sick of scrapbooking, I have since made one minibook and two layouts and I have at least 20 more I am planning to do this month. This project didn’t burn me out; it actually helped me fall in love with scrapbooking all over again.

ETA: I also wanted to add that I didn’t do more than one layout on any day. I didn’t queue them up, I didn’t catch up. (With the exception of one single day where I was gone all day so I did my layout the night before.) I liked the idea of doing one and having more to do for the next day. The idea wasn’t to get 31 layouts done but to do one every single day. If you do this project and fall behind, my personal recommendation would be to just pick up the next day and start again and not try to catch up. Just my 2 cents.