Review: Lessons in Chemistry

Lessons in Chemistry
Lessons in Chemistry by Bonnie Garmus
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

“Elizabeth simply refused to accept limits, not just for herself, but for others.”

This is one of the top three reads of 2021 for me. I have loved every single moment I spent with it. I loved Elizabeth, I loved six-thirty, I loved Mad, I loved every character in this book. I loved the story. I loved how serious and how light and profound and how enjoyable it was.

“Elizabeth revealed that there were hundreds, maybe thousands of others, and that no human spoke them all. In fact, most people spoke only one—maybe two—unless they were something called Swiss and spoke eight. No wonder people didn’t understand animals. They could barely understand one another.”

This is the story of Elizabeth, who is a chemist and then a TV show cooking host. She has a daughter Mad and a dog six-thirty in 1960s California. Her story is sad and harrowing and funny and energizing and deeply deeply inspiring. She is truly one of a kind.

“Chemistry is change and change is the core of your belief system. Which is good because that’s what we need more of—people who refuse to accept the status quo, who aren’t afraid to take on the unacceptable.”

The writing and characters in this book were exceptionally well done. The dialogue is sharp and on point. There are some major triggers for rape and a lot of sexism. Some might not resonate with this book or Elizabeth but, for me, it was one of the best I’ve read.

“Whenever you start doubting yourself,” she said, turning back to the audience, “whenever you feel afraid, just remember. Courage is the root of change—and change is what we’re chemically designed to do. So when you wake up tomorrow, make this pledge. No more holding yourself back. No more subscribing to others’ opinions of what you can and cannot achieve. And no more allowing anyone to pigeonhole you into useless categories of sex, race, economic status, and religion. Do not allow your talents to lie dormant, ladies. Design your own future. When you go home today, ask yourself what you will change. And then get started.”

I will not forget this story and Elizabeth for a long long time.

with deep gratitude to Doubleday and netgalley for an advanced copy in exchange for an honest review.

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Review: Belonging: Remembering Ourselves Home

Belonging: Remembering Ourselves Home
Belonging: Remembering Ourselves Home by Toko-pa Turner
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

3.5 stars.

This is not a book I would have picked up on my own even though I am always searching for belonging. I had never heard of this author and the book was very slow going for me but in the end I loved parts of it and really felt grateful to have read it.

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Review: The Island of Missing Trees

The Island of Missing Trees
The Island of Missing Trees by Elif Shafak
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

An excellent Romeo and Juliet-like story of two kids who fall in love from two sides of Cyprus. Turkish and Greek. As someone who grew up in Turkey and heard all about the separation in Cyprus I found it really interesting to read about a story that takes place there and talks about the atrocities of war. Loved the mystical parts with nature, as well. Wonderful story.

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Review: Just Haven’t Met You Yet

Just Haven't Met You Yet
Just Haven’t Met You Yet by Sophie Cousens
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

This was one of those sweet books where I totally know what’s going to happen in the end but I still enjoy reading it anyway because it’s sweet and lovely to read.

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Review: Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life

Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life
Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life by Emily Nagoski
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Not sure why I waited this long to read this exquisite book. It was excellent, informative, kind and worth every moment I spent with it. Nagoski is one of a kind.

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Review: Like a House on Fire

Like a House on Fire
Like a House on Fire by Lauren McBrayer
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

“I did think, let’s go about this slowly. This is important. This should take some really deep thought. We should take small thoughtful steps. But, bless us, we didn’t.—MARY OLIVER, I DID THINK, LET’S GO ABOUT THIS SLOWLY”

This is the story of a woman who goes back to working after taking a break in her career. She joins this small architecture firm and the woman she works for there becomes her idol, her best friend and makes her revisit all of her values, thoughts and way of life.

“She wasn’t trying to be a martyr. She handled things on her own because she liked being the sort of person who could, and because it made her feel less like her mother, who routinely asked other people for help just so she could judge the extent of their affection for her based on their willingness to give it.”

The book covers many topics around parenthood, marriage, friendship, career, being a woman and more. I loved the voice of the author and I really enjoyed the characters even though I’d say especially the male characters weren’t nearly as three-dimensional as they could have been.

“She was preoccupied with trying to remember why she’d ever thought it was necessary to throw a party for a human who was too young to form memories. Parents everywhere did this. Why? Parents were adults.”

It’s possible that many readers will not enjoy this book as it definitely takes a stance and does not soften things for the reader. I personally enjoyed that and found myself swept up in the story and cheering for the characters.

“She didn’t know where she would go, just that she needed to experience the sensation of moving forward through space. If it were an option to put herself into a catapult and be hurled into the air, she would’ve done it without hesitation.”

There’s a quote about getting to the end of your life only to realize you haven’t lived it. This book reminded me of that quote. I loved it.

Thank you to netgalley and G.P. Putnam’s Sons for an advanced copy in exchange for an honest review.

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Review: Joy on Demand: The Art of Discovering the Happiness Within

Joy on Demand: The Art of Discovering the Happiness Within
Joy on Demand: The Art of Discovering the Happiness Within by Chade-Meng Tan
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I was lucky enough to take the Search Inside Yourself class with Meng many many years ago. Even though the audio of this book felt a bit cartoony to listen to, the ideas and the concepts are profound and I will keep coming back to them again and again. Especially since my word for 2022 is Joy.

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Review: Darkness Visible: A Memoir of Madness

Darkness Visible: A Memoir of Madness
Darkness Visible: A Memoir of Madness by William Styron
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

A personal story about Styron’s experience with depression. Open, honest, and very very sad.

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Review: The Noonday Demon: An Atlas of Depression

The Noonday Demon: An Atlas of Depression
The Noonday Demon: An Atlas of Depression by Andrew Solomon
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

It’s hard to call this book excellent because it’s so very very depressing. A stark, real look at depression and also so much history, politics and background on all the ways depression and race and poverty intersect. Eye opening and so very sad.

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Review: Clarity & Connection

Clarity & Connection
Clarity & Connection by yung pueblo
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I love pueblo’s books. They are pithy and they make you think and they help you remember that life is an inside job. And doing your work is never a waste of time.

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Review: I Hope This Finds You Well

I Hope This Finds You Well
I Hope This Finds You Well by Kate Baer
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I loved this. Not as much as Baer’s previous book but every minute I spent with it was joy and laugh out loud and touching and she’s simply brilliant.

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Review: Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle

Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle
Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle by Emily Nagoski
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

this book was on my list for several reads. I am so excited I finally got to sit down and read it. It was absolutely excellent. There are so so many good pieces of information in this book. So much helpful advice. If you’re burned out, worn out, overwhelmed, this will help.

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