2026 – Onward – September 21

I thought I had written an update last week but it looks like I skipped both of the Mondays in September so far. Last Monday I was off and the Monday before was Labor day so here we are. The good news is that September has been kind to me and I have had a relaxing and joyful time so far.

Big Goal: I really took my big goal to heart and I’ve been working hard to be kind to myself. I have been trying to hear myself talk and remind myself that I also deserve my kindness. Additionally, last week, I took the week off for my birthday and purposefully changed my routines so I wouldn’t feel any pressure of routine and it was just truly lovely. I just did whatever I wanted and each time the little voice perked up to say something critical, I reminded her that we were trying something new this week. I’m very grateful for the break in the constant chatter in my head.

  • Progress on the big five:
    • Y: I haven’t really done anything to figure out more plans for winter-prep. But my flowers in the front are now blooming!
    • G: not so far lol.
    • S: all september appointments done and so far good news all around, crossing fingers and toes!
    • Sa: both vet appointment and back to school night done! also grooming scheduled.
    • D: drove to school!
  • Three Medium goals:
    • working on helping A.
    • got tix for NYC!
    • didn’t really start healthy meals, yoga, or visual note taking. but it’s ok. i’m ok with giving myself grace.
    • Chores:
      • A appointment done
      • hang up office lights not done
      • grooming – scheduled
  • Start: didn’t a new book with D yet.
  • Stop: working on this one.
  • Continue: didn’t add new ones here yet but will work on this.
  • Brave: man oh man, working on this one too.

Also unexpectedly I decided to do something i’d been putting off for ten years and it looks like it might be working, which would be a birthday miracle. Thanks to good people doing amazing things for me. I am so grateful.

Here’s to another month. Joyful one this time around. Paying attention. Loving my people. Savoring and living in awe. And taking steps to move onward.

Review: The Knave and the Moon

The Knave and the Moon
The Knave and the Moon by Rachel Gillig
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

i read both of these back to back which was likely a mistake.

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Review: The Knight and the Moth

The Knight and the Moth
The Knight and the Moth by Rachel Gillig
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

Not sure why I decided to read this. it was good but I never fully got into it. which begs the question on why i then continued to read #2.

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Review: The Song of Stork and Dromedary

The Song of Stork and Dromedary
The Song of Stork and Dromedary by Anjet Daanje
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

It’s been a long time since I read a 700+ page book with my eyes. I couldn’t wait to get my hands on this book the moment it came out because I had read so much about it and I wanted to read it so badly. And it so so did not disappoint. I will say that I think the descriptions I’ve read, for me, didn’t really do it the kind of justice that connected with me.

Yes this book starts as being about two writer sisters (likely modeled after the Brontes) and there’s a lot about them in the beginning. But the structure is really like a collection of short stories with super short chapters weaved in and the we progress in time with every story. As we get closer to modern day, the connection to the original characters gets more tenuous. In fact, I think that’s one of the reasons the last story was my least favorite.

While most of the stories are about sisters, some are also about brothers, and some are siblings. There’s a lot of death in the book. There’s a lot about marriage. A lot about being a woman. A lot about identity and belonging and autonomy. Every story was unique and incredible in its own way.

Even though I wish there was one more circle back to the original sisters at the very end, and even though I didn’t love the last story as much as I did the others, this book will stay with me for years to come.

And since I read it, I also reread many parts on audio and I was so worried it wouldn’t hold up its magic but it absolutely does. It’s perfect on audio so if you’re into audio, you have a winner here! Henrietta Meire does the most incredible job.

with gratitude to netgalley and Brilliance Audio for an advanced copy in exchange for an honest review.

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Review: Passengers

Passengers
Passengers by Alexander Maksik
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I really liked this book even though I ended up reading it very slowly. For people who are very plot-focused, this will not be a rewarding experience. But if you’re into books that are a-moment-in-time and character-based, you might enjoy this as much as I did. It’s about a woman and her dad, stuck at the airport while their flight gets delayed again and again. It’s about connection, loss, family, hope, despair and so much more. I truly enjoyed it.

with gratitude to netgalley and Europa Editions for an advanced copy in exchange for an honest review

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Review: Tear Me Apart

Tear Me Apart
Tear Me Apart by J.T. Ellison
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

Fast read but only mildly interesting and I have already completely forgotten about it… eh!

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Review: Bodies of Magic

Bodies of Magic
Bodies of Magic by Freya Marske
My rating: 2 of 5 stars

I don’t really know if it was the particular audio reading or my mood or some other aspect but I picked up and put down this book several times. I didn’t feel like I connected with any of the characters and didn’t find myself rooting for anything. At some point I wasn’t even curious about what happened. Even though I loved the idea of this book something lacked in the execution for me. I am very sad that this was a miss for me.

with gratitude to netgalley and Macmillan Audio for an advanced copy in exchange for an honest review.

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Review: The Truth About the Harry Quebert Affair

The Truth About the Harry Quebert Affair
The Truth About the Harry Quebert Affair by Joël Dicker
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I loved this book more than I thought I would. I had it checked out and returned it to the library many many times, and finally it was time apparently. I am so glad it was. This book was fun and clever and twisty and enjoyable. I loved it.

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Review: The Secrets We Hide

The Secrets We Hide
The Secrets We Hide by Karin Slaughter
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

I enjoyed this story. I like Slaughter’s series while I listen to it but these don’t really seem to stay with me. But that’s perfectly ok.

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Review: Luna, Phoenix, Queen

Luna, Phoenix, Queen
Luna, Phoenix, Queen by Julie Orringer
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

This book is absolutely fantastic. Very likely to be one of my very favorites from this year. I loved the way it was structured: this read to me like connected stories but each story has a different character’s POV and goes forward in time. It was just absolutely perfectly written with each character telling you more about the other characters and peeling another layer of the onion for you so that you could easily fall in love with them bit by bit. It’s absolutely magnificent.

with gratitude to netgalley and Knopf for an advanced copy in exchange for an honest review.

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Review: Legs Hearts Minds: Loss and Its Remedies

Legs Hearts Minds: Loss and Its Remedies
Legs Hearts Minds: Loss and Its Remedies by Chris Jones
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I read about this book in the Atlantic. I am glad I read the book. It was well-written and you rarely see these events from the male’s perspective. I appreciated that he shared both his learnings and his mistakes. This is a long journey and none of us are perfect. What matters is that we try. And I appreciate that.

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Review: Switzy

Switzy
Switzy by Emma Cline
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

It appears I am always in the minority when it comes to Cline. It might be that her style just doesn’t speak to me. Even though this was interesting as a concept, I just didn’t really care for it. Eh.

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