Daily Diary - March 16 2010

I am running out of photos, I need to go take some. I haven’t taken time to do that in a while.

Nathaniel is eating a lot of food by himself lately. All sorts of fruits, cheese, bread, etc. and it’s good for me cause I can do things while he eats and he can pace himself as he likes but it’s also so much fun to watch him pick things up and stick them in his mouth and smack his lips. Just a joy.

David reunited with his ipod today and he’s overjoyed. He’d forgotten about it and I’d kept it away for a while. But I don’t mind him watching movies. Much better than TV since there are no commercials.

And here’s one of Nathaniel crawling. It’s blurry, I know but I love that his little foot is in there.

I am still having an allergy attack and my nose and eyes are all red and dripping and it’s no fun. But the medication to fix it also dries up my milk so I am stuck this way until it goes away. I pray that it’s soon.

Another layout done today, that makes 5 in 4 days, not so bad. I then did a lot of work, too. I am really excited that I am getting stuff done and going through my todo list. It’s nice to cross things off. There are a few insistent ones sitting there but I plan to finish them before the week’s out, too. Then I can start planning for May.

Note to Self:
I’ve been thinking a lot about being unreliable lately. Over the years, it’s become a trait that irritates me more and more. I feel like if you say you should do something then you should do it. On most occasions, no one is forcing you to commit to something so it’s often by will. And I know life gets in the way sometimes. I respect that but most often it’s cause some people have no integrity and don’t value their word or promise. I don’t want to be a person like that. To anyone. I really want to be careful what I commit to and I want to make sure I can actually do what I say I will, when I say I will. Is that possible all the time? I want to take a good look at my life and see what I promise and see if I can deliver it without pain and agony. I want to be able to have my word mean something. I also want to surround myself with others who practice the same thing.

Three Things I’m Grateful For:
1. Getting my layouts done. I am grateful for the joy they give me and for the sense of accomplishment I’m getting from doing them.
2. I put together an art journal/journal of sorts last night. I used my trees from last week and some papers from a kit I’d bought from Rebecca Sower. I am planning to take it with me on my trip and I am grateful for the possibilities it’s opening in me now. Maybe it’s the first art journal I can actually use.
3. I am grateful for competent customer support. I have the luxury of going through business tech support for some of my devices and it’s amazing what a difference it makes. Grateful for speedy service and kind people who take the time to resolve my problems.

Two Things David’s Grateful For:
1. Getting to watch movies in his ipod (surprise, surprise!)
2. Playing superheroes at school (he was Batman again. I’m always Batman, he says)

Weekly Gratitude - The Daunting Task of Being Perfect

This week’s words are dedicated to those of you who had great intentions but have still not started this project due to a plethora of reasons. I’m sure they are all good ones and I am not here to discount any of them but I am here to challenge you to make this week be the week to jump in with both feet.

Assuming you’re still interested.

I am loving this project so much that I started getting my son to play along, too. As I’ve already mentioned, I write down three things I’m grateful for each day and as of a few weeks ago now I write two things my son’s grateful for each day, too. It’s become one of our bedtime rituals. If you have little ones, I highly recommend it.

Back to my point, I was listening to a podcast today and some artists were discussing how they cannot start a project because they can’t think of the perfect medium or the perfect time or they don’t have it all planned out yet and so they can’t even begin. I am a big planner, so I totally understand the need to have things figured out before you start but at the same time, I also believe in the power of diving in with both feet. Is it better to have nothing instead of something imperfect?

There are cases where I can see the value of being perfect (or as close as possible). If it’s for a job where you might otherwise be fired or hurt someone (like a doctor might). If it’s something where the goal is to master that particular craft or field etc. I can understand the need to be perfect in some cases.

Yet, I doubt that applies here. When you first heard about Weekly Gratitude and thought it would be a good idea and decided you wanted to play along, why did you want to do it? I imagine some of you thought it would make you more aware of how great your life is. Others thought it might be an exercise in mindfulness. Or a good reason to create regular pieces of art. Or make a little minibook.

I just can’t imagine you thought, “Well if I don’t do this perfectly, it will have been a complete waste.”

Seriously?

I think most people strive to be perfect because they think others will judge them if they are not. Let me tell you a secret: no one cares if your art isn’t perfect. No one cares if you didn’t spell a word correctly. No one cares if your lines are a bit crooked. Well…maybe a few people do. But those are not the kind of people you would like. No one actually spends any time looking at someone else’s work in detail and tearing it apart. Only small people do that and you don’t care what small people think. Trust me, you don’t.

So if you end up not doing your project because you’re worried what others will say, do you know who loses in the end?

Yep, you got it.

You.

You lose. Because while they won’t even remember your name a week from now, you’re the one who let that get to you and didn’t practice gratitude. Didn’t do art. Didn’t go for something you wanted just cause someone, somewhere might think you’re not perfect.

Sorry to make you mad but let me tell you: You’re not perfect. You’re not. Neither is your neighbor. Or the person whom you admire online. Or the “famous” person you wish you could be like. Etc etc. No person is perfect. Not to mention perfect is a moving target. The closer you get to it, the more flaws you see, the farther it gets. You never reach it.

Nor should you aim to.

I’m not one to tell you what to do in your life (even though I just did a bit) but I do have a challenge for you. If you’re one of those people who hasn’t started this habit because you haven’t found the perfect way to do it or the perfect album to put it in, I challenge you to throw all that out the window this week. Just pick a way and do it. Jot it on the back of your grocery list. Record it while you’re driving. Whatever, I don’t care. Just take a moment to be grateful. (This goes for those of you who started the project but haven’t done a thing for weeks, too. You haven’t failed. You can pick up and move on. You don’t have to go back and fill in. Just move forward. I promise, there is no WG police to come get you.)

Perfectionism can be a good drive for some people. An excuse to thrive and aim higher. And, in those cases, it’s a valuable tool. But for most people it’s crippling. It’s what stops you from functioning or accomplishing. In the case of this exercise, it’s possibly stopping you from feeling better. From realizing the good in your life.

Isn’t it worth it to let it go for a few weeks and see if you can enjoy being grateful?

Let me reiterate: there is no right way to do this project. Just do it. There is no right time to do this project. Do it now. Try taking a moment everyday for a week and write down one thing you’re grateful for. Don’t pick a format. Just write it down wherever it feels convenient each day. Say at 10am. Wherever you are at 10am, pause for one minute, grab a pen and write it down on the first piece of paper you can find. Just try it.

Maybe one week is not enough to reap the benefits, I don’t know but I hope you’ll try. I hope it will be the push you need to let go of the daunting task of being perfect with this and just doing it for the joy of practicing gratitude.



The following is cross-posted from the Weekly Gratitude Blog. I will post there every Tuesday and decided to post those posts here, too. For those of you who read both blogs, I apologize in advance. Some weeks the content might be different and other weeks, exactly the same.

Daily Diary – March 15 2010

Beware the ides of March.

I always talk about how David is so nice to Nathaniel and he really is. Nathaniel loves playing with this push-toy and he often pushes until he gets stuck so David was following him around today to help him turn around so he can keep going.

Isn’t he marvelous?

And I love watching Nathaniel play. David has always been a fantastic self-player. And Nathaniel is growing to be one too and it’s so much fun to watch.

I woke up with a sore throat today and didn’t think I was going to end up doing my layout but within 20 minutes or so, I was more awake and did sit down to do my layout. Four so far this week. Not bad. Then I took David to school and did a lot of work while Nathaniel was napping. So all in all the day is a success but I am just so tired from being sick that I can’t dwell in its joy.

Note to Self:
I often wonder if getting sick is your body’s way of telling you to slow down. What would happen if instead of fighting it, I just lay in bed (or on the couch) and really did nothing. Rested, watched TV, read, or whatever low energy thing I can think of. Would it go away faster? And isn’t it better because this way I can get better and go to full productivity faster? I don’t know. I know it’s really hard for me to completely slow down. It’s not in my system but I do wonder if my body is trying to tell me something.

Three Things I’m Grateful For:
1. Getting my layout done even though I really really didn’t think I was going to.
2. I am grateful for a considerably lighter to-do list this week. I feel like it gives me space and time to think of new endeavors and projects.
3. I am really grateful for working from home especially on days like this when I feel so under the weather and can spend the day in my PJs and still get work done.

Two Things David’s Grateful For:
1. Snack time at school. (crackers and grapes)
2. Story time with Mommy (we read The Snow Bear)

Crafting with David - Apple Tree

This week’s craft was simple and inspired by this (click image for source):

We didn’t have two shades of green or any red construction paper so we decided to make yellow apples. We also didn’t have any crepe paper so we improvised.

We sprayed the yellow paper with lots of water. Tore pieces and crumpled them up.

David got to use his safety scissors to cut out the tree trunk.

Then we glued the tree together.

We then glued the crumpled up papers to the tree. This turned out to be the best part of the whole thing. Each time we glued a piece down, we had to count to twenty to get the piece to stick so we started at 1 and counted all the way to 260 or so. David did all the counting and it was awesome. We even got to spend a little time talking about the hundredths place.

Here’s our finished tree. I promise it looks nicer now that the glue has dried up. And we used sparkly modge podge so it’s all shiny too.

Another quick but fun craft!

Daily Diary - March 14 2010

I hadn’t had a tulip for a week. So here we are.

My little boy is still pretty clingy. But he does seem to be happier, thankfully.

Nathaniel got sent a book from Cbr (the bone marrow place) for his first birthday (which is coming up, amazingly) and David was trying to read it to him but he wasn’t paying any attention.

He did finally come by for a few seconds, but didn’t stay for the whole story.

And then he played with his walking toy.

And since some of you asked, I got Jake to grab some photos of me and David. They are not clear but I still like them.

And Nathaniel snuck in one, too.

Great day. I really finished all my tasks this weekend, I am flabbergasted.

Note to Self:
It’s amazing how tasks can have an effect on each other. I had a bunch of things I wanted to do this weekend. none of them were urgent and a few were things I really wanted to do but wasn’t really excited about. I did one of those big ones on Friday night which then gave me the energy to keep going and next thing I knew, I literally did all the items on my list. I know that the one task on Friday really caused all the others. This is the whole point of “eating the frog” but it’s amazing to see it in action. I think there’s something magical about starting your day with something for you (for example art for me) and then doing something that needed to get done that you’ve been putting off. The rest of the day is just icing in the cake. I’m going to try to do that this week and see if I can. Start my day with a layout and then when David’s in school and Nathaniel is napping, do my most important and burdensome task. Let’s see what that does…

Three Things I’m Grateful For:
1. An upcoming trip to Santa Cruz. I am filled with mixed feelings but also joyful anticipation.
2. Excited that I scrapbooked two days in a row just for myself. Grateful that I can.
3. Grateful for sunshine. It’s nice and sunny in beautiful California right now and I am so happy when it’s warm and sunny.

Two Things David’s Grateful For:
1. Craft time with Mommy. (I love hearing that!!)
2. Reading with Mommy and Nathaniel. (love this too!)

5 Days 5 Ways Challenge – Trees – Bonus Day and a Roundup

So I didn’t do this one for Kal’s art challenge. This one is actually almost two years old. But it was such a good fit for this challenge and a different medium so I decided it was worth posting.

I did this for the second creative therapy catalyst back in March 2008. The journaling reads:
when i feel like my problems are huge
and about to swallow me
i visit nature
i look at the towering trees
the endless ocean
and it reminds me
that i am a very small part of this earth
tiny
and my problems, i realize
are not so big.

It’s using acrylic paints and paper. I had used a lot of what I learned from Paulette Insall’s organic backgrounds class.

And here they are all of them.

What a wonderful start to my journal. I plan to put lots of the other papers in in this week and complete it as a journal so I can start actually writing in it. Maybe in a few weeks I can do another one of these with a different theme.

Weekly Layouts - At the Park

This is one of the layouts I made yesterday. It’s about how one of the best things about having two children is watching them play together and how David enjoys seeing Nathaniel laugh as much as anything and how lucky he is to have this brother and how I hope they will always play together.

Simple but I love it.

Daily Diary - March 13 2010

Today there are a lot of photos of me and the little boy. Feel free to skip :)

This is shaping to be one of those weekends where I didn’t think I would get to do my todo list items and yet I get them all done. Unpredictably. I processed my client shoot from last weekend. I did two layouts. I did a crafting project with David. I finished my book. I got a pedicure and a brow wax. I am even processing David’s birthday movie and photos. Quite surreal.

I asked Jake to take a bunch of photos of Nathaniel and me today:

And I snapped one of him.

And we’ve made a new rule that David can only play the Wii one day of the week. He chose Saturday. So here he is focusing.

I swear he doesn’t look that sickly in real life.

After I came back from my pedicure, Jake snapped a few more photos of us:

Photos of me with any of my boys is rare and special to me.

Note to Self:
I am doing really well with this “a project daily for a week” process I started. It’s making me create more every day and I love the feeling of it. I was reading this on Jen Lee’s blog today: ” I remember that someone once told me that balance isn’t doing it all, all the time, but it is often doing one thing for a time, then doing another and creating balance in this turn-taking fashion over the course of a month or a season or a year.” and I realized that’s exactly how I feel. I love the process of focusing on one thing for a while and then shifting gears. My creativity and interest goes in ebbs and flows and I love following it around. Since February, I’ve done:

– Feb 6 – 13: a week of heart stitching/sewing
– Feb 15 – 21: a week in the life project – daily scrapping of our day
– Feb 22 – 28: daily creative therapy catalysts
– March 1 – 7: daily stitching (for the sampler I posted today)
– March 8 – 14: the 5 in 5 challenge (using one concept – trees – with 5 mediums)

I never intended to do this and it wasn’t planned but I am loving it and I plan to continue. So this week, I am going to do a layout a day. I started on Saturday cause I am leaving town on Thursday and don’t think I will be able to do it where I’m going (I am not one of those “away from home” scrappers. I like to have all my things with me.) I already did two layouts today and it felt great. I have all my photos printed and I will be hand journaling. Sometimes I long for the days when I didn’t know about all the scrapbooking sites and books where I learned “how” to scrapbook. I wish I could go back to the days where I didn’t worry about design or products so much and really focused on telling my story, capturing the moments. In the end, that’s all that matters and I need to keep that in mind so much more often. So here’s to hoping this week can be about capturing that spirit.

I think I will sit and plan the next few weeks too. I’m thinking daily copics, daily drawing, daily journaling just to name a few. I also want to incorporate some of the recurring events into my week. Like actually sit and do a creative therapy and a layout each week. I work better with schedules, time constraints, and creative constraints. So I think I’d like to find some way to incorporate that in my week. Let’s see what I can come up with…

If you have ideas for weekly creative ventures, please do let me know. I’m up for pretty much anything.

Three Things I’m Grateful For:
1. The two layouts I made today were for no one else but me. no assignment. no required products. nice journaling but nothing too long or even too deep. just genuine. for me. for nathaniel. i loved doing them. i have enough product to last two lifetimes and i am grateful that i got to use some of it.
2. I am grateful that I got to take some time to myself and get a pedicure. It’s as much about the time alone as it is about the pedicure itself.
3. I am grateful for how nice, kind, and easygoing my husband is. It’s a rare quality and one I appreciate deeply.

Two Things David’s Grateful For:
1. Playing the Wii! (of course)
2. Buying his lego toy (Jake’s brother got David a lego giftcard for xmas. we are now getting around to buying it.)
3. Learning to wash his own body during bath time.
He had three today.

5 days 5 ways Challenge - Trees - Day 5

Okie here’s day five for Kal’s art challenge.

The stitching is from this book: A Rainbow of Stitches.

First, I pulled out some brown linen and stitched the trees:

here’s a closeup:

The quote says: “There are rich counsels in the trees.” and it’s by Herbert Horne. It’s stitched in place and so is the page.

And then I added the journaling page and that’s it.

There you go, five in five days!

52 Things - Take a workshop

Here’s the thing I worked on last week:

34. Take a workshop on something I’ve never done

As I already mentioned, I took the Freestyle Embroidery class from Teresa McFayden. Before her class, I only knew how to do a backstitch and I’d done a few french knots. After having done Rebecca’s hearts week, I wanted more so this workshop came at the perfect time.

Here’s the finished sampler:

The stitching I did on the first week ended up in the WIL book I made so here’s that one:

I then redid some of the things on the big sampler but not all of them. Here are some details:

closer-up:

back of the little dangly butterfly.

I stitched this happy yellow fabric on the back.

Here’s another look at the final product:

I absolutely loved doing this workshop. Even though my arm is still hurting.

Daily Diary – March 12 2010

It’s Friday and I am totally wiped. Five days of getting up at 5am will eventually get to you. I am really hoping that Nathaniel decides to sleep until morning soon. Please tell me it’s coming soon…

He spent most of the day glued to me as I wavered between tasks, accomplishing not much. Oh well, at least it’s now the weekend. And there’s much to be done, of course.

Note to Self:
I have a long todo list. And yet I don’t want to do any of the items on there. I want to curl up with my book and let myself off the hook at least for tonight. This always makes me feel guilty. But I have to remind myself that the strong urge to be let off the hook is a sign that I need some down time and I need to listen to it. Down time is important. Rest is how you recover the energy you need. So tonight I will rest and I can tackle the todo list tomorrow.

Three Things I’m Grateful For:
1. I am grateful that bedtime with my kids is not painful. We eat, we take a bath, we read stories, we brush teeth, we nurse, we look out the window and laugh a bit and then everyone goes to bed. No whining, no complaining. It’s a miracle.
2. I am grateful that I am almost caught up in Nathaniel’s baby book. A few more layouts and I’ll be all there. It’s quite amazing.
3. I am grateful that it’s a quiet weekend with no commitments. I cherish being at home more than anything else.

Two Things David’s Grateful For:
1. Playing superheroes with his friends. David was Batman. Jace was robin. Joseph was superman and Noa was supergirl.
2. David said he’s so grateful for all of his friends at school.

5 days 5 ways Challenge - Trees - Day 4

Okie here’s day four for Kal’s art challenge.

Two weeks ago Jennifer McGuire posted a a long entry on copic markers. I swear to you that I had no interest in these. I am not a stamper and I already have so many art supplies.

Yet after reading her post, I couldn’t resist the pull. I had to have them! After spending many many days doing research and picking my colors, my copics finally arrived on Wednesday. I figured they were perfect for this challenge. So I stamped some trees, colored them and then cut them out (I used the copic sketchbook paper). I then covered my journal page with old book paper, glued the trees on top and colored and cut out some butterflies. I dripped some watercolor on the back paper and added a bit of lace on top and the quote. That’s it.

Here are some details:

The quote says: “Trees are much like human beings and enjoy each other’s company. Only a few love to be alone.” and it’s by Jens Jessen.

I’ve got a long way to go with the copics but they are really fun and I look forward to learning more.

There you go, day four down.

Weekly Gratitude - Burgaz

Our theme for March is home.

The journaling reads:
Throughout my childhood, we spent our summers on this tiny island in the Marmara Sea. This island is so small that you can walk its circumference in two hours. It has no cars, only horse carriages. We know pracically everyone on the island and our family’s lived there for generations. So have many others. It’s like a small capsule of time. Our house and magical life there will forever be some of my fondest memories of my childhood.

Daily Diary – March 11 2010

Today was a long and stressful day. One of those days where things go wrong which causes the panic that then makes other things go wrong and it multiplies from there. Nathaniel woke up at 4 and would not go back to sleep. When I finally gave up and nursed him, he sat up and started giggling and wanting to play. Which made me mad and I put him back in his bed and passed out. Then when we dropped off David, Nathaniel wound’t take his morning nap. After complaining for a long time, he slept 25 minutes before it was time to get David which meant I had to wake him up. And then he would not take his afternoon nap and I was in the middle of the release craziness and he wouldn’t eat and then he wouldn’t sleep and I just was going a bit insane the whole day.

But in the end, it all worked out of course. Release went out. He slept, even if for 30 minutes. The kids took their bath where they hugged and smiled and played.

And they all went to bed and Jake and I got some quiet time and I got to play with my copics and do my trees. My arm is still hurting a lot and I am very tired. I think tonight will be a reading night. Haven’t done that in too long.

Note to Self:
I really need to focus on not letting the panic build. Sometimes I can literally feel the stress physically and it only does damage and causes more stress and causes more things to go wrong. Causes me to make stupid decisions which cause the whole thing to get worse. I need to take a moment, walk away, take a breath and come back calmer and more collected. I really need to work on this. For my sanity more than anything.

Three Things I’m Grateful For:
1. I was really at my wit’s end when Jake came home tonight and he just helped me and supported me all the way and thanks to him I now feel back to my calm and collected self. So thankful for him.
2. I am almost done with my art challenge and I love how my journal is turning out. I need another idea so I can keep the journal going. I am thankful for the internet for the inspiration and ideas.
3. I got a lot of support from another work mate today. I am thankful to work at a place full of kind, supportive people. I can never say this enough. People are what make a job suck or rock.

Two Things David’s Grateful For:
1. School. He said he’s grateful for all of school.
2. Bath time!

5 days 5 ways Challenge - Trees - Day 3

Okie here’s day three for Kal’s art challenge.

This was 100% inspired by Ruth Rae from her amazing book: Layered, Tattered and Stitched which is incredible and inspiring on so many levels.

Here are some details:

The quote says: “Alone with myself. The trees bend to caress me. The shade hugs my heart.” and it’s by Candy Polgar.

The quote is along the swirls on the bottom right.

There you go, day three down.

A Book a Week - Dear John


I’ve read several Nicholas Sparks novels before and I find him to be a quick and easy romantic read. Often cheesy but sometimes you need light, cheesy reading. And after going through Committed (several non-fiction books in a row, in fact.) I needed something light and easy.

Since I kept seeing the commercials and thought I might like to see the movie I decided to read Dear John.

Light it was.

Easy, it wasn’t.

In typical Sparks fashion, it was a lot of storytelling but I just didn’t get into the story this time. It felt disconnected from the beginning and it lacked his sweeping romanticism so it didn’t even leave me with a wonderfully happy feeling. I know that makes it less Hollywood and more real but still, if I wanted real, I wouldn’t have read him.

Quick read but not sure if it’s worth it. I’m curious if the movie is good or not.

ETA: I wrote this before I saw the movie and of course they changed the movie just enough to make it much less sad and I actually enjoyed the movie a lot.

Digital Downloads – Memory Overlays

This week’s download is some journaling overlays for a graduating senior or any other case when you want to write about memories and lessons. Here is what they look like:

You can download it here: Graduation Overlays download.

You are welcome to play with these as much as you want and use them anywhere you’d like. You are NOT allowed to sell them ever. You don’t have to but I’d appreciate a link back if you do use them.


This is part of a weekly digital download series. They are posted every Thursday. You can find all of the ones that were posted here. If you like my downloads, please click here and give me ideas/requests for 2010. I would like to continue this feature but I am not sure I can come up with enough ideas on my own.

Daily Diary – March 10 2010

I finally finished my stitching sampler and I love how it turned out. More on this on Saturday.

I am really enjoying doing this art challenge. In the last three days, I’ve played with fabric, pastels, stitching, copic markers, felt, beads, and wires. And I’m not even done yet. It’s awesome to get to have so much fun. Exactly what I was hoping for, for my journal. I am going to continue working on the journal for a few more weeks. Maybe I’ll do it two nights a week or something so it’s not so consuming. Or maybe I will just let it consume me.

Nathaniel is still being really clingy and quite grouchy about what he eats. I am hoping it’s recovery and antibiotics related and that it will go away. I just hate seeing him sad and frustrated so much. Not that I don’t get many many smiles, too.

At some point today, I had to put him down next to David who was playing and they just sat there next to each other and played and then they looked at each other and smiled and I just felt so grateful for my life all over again. I feel that way every night in the bath, too. And then Nathaniel just discovered that he can lift the curtains in his room and see light and look out the window and he loves doing that at bedtime now. So he and David looked out the window for a while together, too. I love watching them be together. So. much.

Note to Self:
Today was my friend Levent’s birthday. (I mentioned him in a recent catalyst. He was the first person I loved and he’s still one of my favorite people in the world.) I called him first thing in the morning and we talked for a long time. It had been quite a while since we chatted and it was so great to talk to him. There’s something magical about old friends. About the ease with which you talk and the comfort you feel about not ever having to be something you’re not. There’s a small chance I might see him in a month and the possibility fills me with joy.

Three Things I’m Grateful For:
1. My chat with Levent. It started my day on such a great mood.
2. Some happy mail today. DMC floss and Copic markers. Yey!
3. Oh and I bought a piece of art today. If you have read my blog for more than a day, you know that I’m a big fan of Rebecca Sower and I’ve been staking her etsy store for a while now and when I saw this piece, I had to have it. I actually have that book and saw it in there first. I don’t know if it’s the little boys or the cream color that I love so much but I can’t wait to get it. I am grateful for inspiring, beautiful art.

Two Things David’s Grateful For:
1. Snack time at school (bagels and cuties – which is what he calls tangerines.)
2. Playing with Jakie’s speedracer. (it was share day today where kids are allowed to bring a toy to share.)

5 days 5 ways Challenge - Trees - Day 2

Okie here’s day two for Kal’s art challenge.

This was 100% inspired by a journal page by Misty Mawn.

I then added the lines since I am going to journal all over this:

The quote says: “There’s always music amongst the trees in the garden but our hearts must be very quiet to hear it.” and it’s by Minnie Aumonier.

There you go, day two down.

Catalyst 104 - Don't Play Games

Catalyst One Hundred and Four is: What advice do you have for other couples?

Thoughts:
I am a firm believer that if you want to be with some one and have a solid, growing relationship it’s best not to play any games. You need to be straightforward and be your true self. Only then can you see if this person is a good fit for you, for who you really are. I’ve always found games to be deceiving, childish and detrimental to the health of the relationship. So that’s my biggest advice: Be yourself.