A Book a Week – Hand Wash Cold

I should have written about Hand Wash Cold a long time ago. I read it months ago and I loved it.

I loved it.

I really really loved it.

There are so many things I want to write about this amazing book. So many passages I highlighted. So much that has affected me and I want to read this book at least two more times and I never reread. I want to savor it. I want to think about every little piece of it. I was so moved by the book that I emailed Karen the instant I put it down. But if I wait until I can sit and write up all the passages I highlighted, I will never actually do it.

So just trust me that this is a great book. I really liked it and it really spoke to me.

Daily Diary – August 11 2010

Bad bad bad day. I woke up from the wrong side of bed today and could not seem to shake the feeling all day. I got grouchier and grouchier. It was insane. And I am still not done being grouchy it seems so I am going to keep it short today.

Nathaniel’s really into putting things in bowls lately. Loves to collect his little cheerios.

He puts them in the head of this guy.

And then eats out of it. Ugh.

And here’s the big boy who’s really been super patient with his amazingly cranky mommy today. I was a bad bad bad mommy.

I am going to say goodnight and let this day end hoping i wake up from the other side tomorrow.

Three Things I’m Grateful For:
1. I am grateful for happy mail today.
2. I am grateful for the two layouts I finished today even though I cannot make my peace with them.
3. I am grateful that my kids were still so happy, kind, and generous despite my totally grouchy mood today.

Two Things David’s Grateful For:
1. watching my DVDs
2. watching Preschool Playhouse on dvd.
3. daddy.

Too Often I Forget You are Just Five

I made this layout using A Million Memories August kit.

Journaling is about how David is so mature and helpful that sometimes I forget he’s only 5 and this is to remind myself that it’s ok for me to let him act his age a bit more.

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Daily Diary – August 10 2010

Today went by way too fast. I can hardly remember it. I did however work out and work a whole bunch and read with david and take photos. Those are pretty much the norms of my day now. oh and i FINISHED the garage woot woot woot!!!!!

Early morning, we watched a little TV and when I turned over, I saw David sitting like this and had to snap a photo. Love him.

Later in the day, we found David’s DVDs so he spent a lot of time watching them as Nathaniel walked around.

And gave me looks.

Tried tasting some toys.

And then put them together.

And then my goodies from Tim came. So it was like Christmas in my house! (Exactly like Christmas actually since his products are often what’s on my Christmas list every year.) I wish I could stay home and play with them tonight but I am heading out to my book club. Tomorrow morning, after I work out, I will have to play some.

Now, off to feed the little boys.

Three Things I’m Grateful For:
1. I am grateful for the wonderful box of goodies from Tim. Happy happy joy joy.
2. I am grateful for the finished garage. I cannot tell you how amazingly happy I am about this.
3. I am grateful about going out tonight. I like getting the chance to go out every now and then and I always look forward to my book club meeting.

Two Things David’s Grateful For:
1. watching my DVDs
2. reading with mommy
3. daddy.

Weekly Gratitude – Capturing 1000 Words

For the last three years, I’ve been taking at least one photo every day. In 2008, it was a photo a day of my older son David. In 2009, it was my then newborn son Nathaniel. This year, it’s both of them. It’s flowers. It’s a special lunch we have or a special trip we took or some present or anything that’s part of our ordinary days.

The thing I’ve learned is that what I miss the most over time is remembering the everyday, ordinary things we used to do. The toy my son was obsessed with at the time. The breakfast I looked forward to every morning. The music my little one danced to, etc. The simple, everyday things are the first things to leave my memory. It’s because they are not monumental. We barely pay any attention to them. They happen every day so their effect has dulled.

But they are so extraordinary because they are artifacts of a specific time in our lives. And capturing them in film allows us to freeze that memory so we can hold on to it forever. So, years from now, we can smile as we remember the fondness of that time. So we can allow it to transport us back to the past and re-live it for just a moment. Remember the smell of my son. The words he mispronounced. The troubles I thought I had at the time and the joys of our then everyday lives. Photographs can work magic like that.

So, today, I challenge you to capture more of your days. More of your ordinariness. I know it feels like a burden to take the photos, to download them, process them, etc. Just make it easy on yourself. Take them at a certain time everyday. Say 10am. Or 8am. or 6pm, whatever works for your schedule. Whenever your life is most ordinary. And then download them only once a week. Don’t process them. Don’t show them to anyone else if you’re worried about them not being “perfect.” But take them anyway. And save them.

Years later, when all these people who might have “commented” on the quality of your photos are long gone, you will be so very glad you have the memories. I promise you, it will be worth it.

Just give it a try.



The following is cross-posted from the Weekly Gratitude Blog. I will post there every Tuesday and decided to post those posts here, too. For those of you who read both blogs, I apologize in advance. Some weeks the content might be different and other weeks, exactly the same.

If Only You Were not so Adorable It would be so much Easier

I made this layout using A Million Memories August kit.

Journaling Reads:
Little boy, sometimes you really drive me crazy. Put toys in the trash or take the trash out to play or you eat David’s toys or the Wii remotes. But none of is can ever really punish you because you are so cute and we are all so hopelessly in love with you. You are one lucky boy.

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Daily Diary – August 9 2010

Today was a hectic work day. Not much else got done so I am glad I did a bunch of tasks last night. I do still have another layout to do for the AMM kit but overall, I am ok to wait a bit until a bunch of my goodies come in the mail. I got my December Daily album today. I think I might spend some of August and September putting my album together. I like doing it early.

We took a short break to meet David’s friend and my neighbor at the local playground and then he went home with his friend to play and I didn’t take any photos for a long time today. But when David was back at home, he was happy to see Nathaniel and gave him some hugs.

And me some funny faces.

Nathaniel is focusing a lot harder lately. Working on his fine motor skills. Using forks. Putting things together.

And those teeth are almost almost out! All of them.

David and I did a bunch more reading today. We’re on lesson 29. I feel we’re going a bit fast but he’s so excited and I do make sure we do everything in the lessons. It’s so nice to see him read. So so nice. So I am off to go back to the craziness of work and have some layouts to do and maybe (just maybe) I can read for a few minutes.

I hope your monday was calmer than mine.

Three Things I’m Grateful For:
1. I am grateful for my job. Despite feeling burned out. whiny, and tired sometimes. I love my job. So much.
2. I am grateful for this summer. We’re having such a quiet and wonderful summer that’s not full of tasks. not rushed. no drama. i love it.
3. I am grateful that David has a fun friend so closeby. This was the first time he was somewhere without me (or Jake) and I am so happy he had fun.

Two Things David’s Grateful For:
1. playing with Ece at the playground
2. eating jellybeans at Ece’s
3. Playing legos with Ece
4. daddy.

Focusing Hard and Oblivious to the World

I know I post layouts on Sundays but I’ve been crafting more and more and I think it’s annoying to wait a month (or six) to post them so I think I will post them more and more as I make them from now on. I will still continue posting them on Sundays too. Let’s see if it works.

I made this layout using A Million Memories july kit. It was a lift of Wendy Kwok’s amazing layout and I loved the design of her layout so much. The journaling is about how when David’s playing the Wii, he is completely unaware of anything that goes on around him.

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Daily Diary – August 8 2010

I think the kids must have felt bad for us after the night we had because we didn’t hear a sound until 8am today. It was like a miracle. A good night’s sleep makes such a difference. I gave the kids food and then got to my exercise. Six days out of seven last week. Not too bad. Then I sat and read for a while and the kids played.

Nathaniel’s really good at understanding things and when I say “pis” which means dirty in Turkish, he knows to put the item in the trash. But sometimes he finds things he likes in the trash and digs them out in the process. Despite my pleading “no no no.” Today he found this magazine cover.

Then he found David’s lego box.

Held on to it well.

Dropped some legos into it.

And gave himself a round of applause (we all need to do this more: give ourselves some applause).

Then he tried to fit some tiny pieces of legos together. Worked really hard and once he made them fit, he moved it and made car-like sounds.

Earlier in the day, we were playing in the yard and David got into our red wagon and asked me to push him around but I told him he was too big and I was too weak. So he patiently waited until Daddy was free so he could do it. And, as you can see, it was totally worth the wait. He had a blast.

Nathaniel watched them through the backyard door.

And then got really upset that he couldn’t go out.

So Jake grabbed him and gave him a round on the wagon, too. He loved it.

For a brief moment, he tried to have both kids at once but I got too worried about kids falling off and could not look anymore.

From the squeals I heard, I think there was much joy and no falling. Then it was time for dinner and David and I spent some more time reading. It’s only been four days since we got this book and he’s already in lesson 17. He said he wants to do it all day long and loves it so much. I cannot tell you the joy of seeing one’s kid get excited about reading. It’s so awesome to watch. I have to say huge thanks to Caroline who wrote about the book on Facebook and I am so glad I saw it!! (I also have to thank Deb who I’m told actually found the book through her research. Thank you Deb!!). Reading has become fun here and David’s really figuring it out. It’s awesome to be a part of it.

I have a few more todo items to get done tonight and I am off to bed. All in all, great weekend. I got 2 layouts done, finished one book and started another, lots of family time, some alone time, tons of photos, some exercise, and a lot of reading with the boy! Yey for weekends. Already looking forward to the next one.

Three Things I’m Grateful For:
1. I am grateful that David’s enjoying reading so much. As a kid (and adult) reading was my favorite thing in the world so I cannot wait to share that with my little boy.
2. I am grateful for a full and yet relaxing weekend.
3. I am grateful for all the happy mail I am hoping to receive this week.

Two Things David’s Grateful For:
1. reading with mommy
2. riding the wagon with daddy
3. daddy.

Weekly Layouts – Happiness

This is with A Million Memories February Kit.

I could never have guessed the amount of joy you have brought into my life.

Daily Diary – August 7 2010

Last night was one of the worst nights we’ve had in a long long while. Nathaniel woke up around ten and then again midnight and just could not go back to sleep. I tried everything from ignoring him to hugging him to patting his back to whispering but nothing worked. He was just as frustrated as me. Finally around 2:30am, I just picked him up and put him in our bed. He fell asleep nursing and then woke up again around 4am which is when I put him back in his own bed. He cried for a bit but wen’t back to sleep. And woke up at 9am. Of course, David didn’t hear any of this so at 7am he was at our door wondering why we were still sleeping. All of this made today quite a long, difficult day.

Thankfully, Nathaniel spent most of it playing with legos. Putting helmets on little lego men.

Playing with whatever David dropped from the table.

Put them all in a bowl and then flipped it all over. Fun fun. Then put them all back and clapped himself.

When he leaned over in the couch, I noticed the punched butterfly on his foot and made me smile.

The three boys sat together for a while and just played and hugged.

And then Nathaniel played some more legos.

In the meantime, I finished my book and made another layout with the August kit and then we went to get the car (which was being serviced) and I decided I wanted to go to a cafe nearby where I like to sit and eat their grilled goat cheese and pesto sandwiches. Nathaniel came with me and David stayed home to play Wii (and Jake stayed with him.) We’d already done our reading for the day so it was ok to let him play.

When I came back, David finally got his turn for “riding on daddy’s back” and he was really happy.

The kids are finally sleeping and I am 100% exhausted. Not a muscle that’s not aching. Off to find a good book to curl with.

Three Things I’m Grateful For:
1. I am grateful for getting the car fixed. As it turns out we had a flat tire and I had no idea. Actually all 4 tires were bad. I’m glad we got it checked out.
2. I am grateful that my kids (for the most part) get along and like each other. I know this will change so I am enjoying it for now.
3. I am grateful for my one hour of hanging out with just Nathaniel and eating something tasty and being outdoors. It does wonders.

Two Things David’s Grateful For:
1. wii day!
2. getting to break apart the bulldozer lego daddy got me
3. daddy.

52 Things – Take photos in a photobooth

I love photobooths. I can’t even explain why since they take crappy photos. But I do. Which is why I added this item to my list, I thinkL

37. Take photos in a photobooth

And a few weeks ago, I went in to work for some task and had to drag my kids along, too. When I got to main campus, I saw there were several photobooths and they were free! I couldn’t miss the chance!

The kids weren’t nearly as cooperative but I love them anyway. Especially the one in the middle all the way in the bottom.

Love them!

We also took some when Levent was here but I can’t seem to find those. When I do, I’ll add them here.