What Kind of Stories Do You Like to Tell?

I wrote this post for My Mind’s Eye’s blog as part of my guest designer post back in September. This is an exact copy, just like to preserve it on my blog. Click layouts to see them in more detail and read journaling.

When I first started scrapbooking, I didn’t add a lot of journaling on my pages. I tried to jot down the bare basics and call it a day. A few years later, I was entering a competition and it said that journaling was required in all my pages. So I started to journal.

To my surprise, I quickly realized that I loved adding my thoughts and feelings to my pages. When I look through my scrapbook pages, I always cherish the ones with stories more. It’s not that I don’t like my photos, but coupling the photos with my words gives so much more meaning to my pages. It helps me remember details from that time in my life, it allows me to relive the moment and the feelings I had then. It makes the memory so much stronger and more alive.

So, for me, journaling has become an essential part of my scrapbook layouts. And since I care about stories so much, I wanted to have a way to organize all my stories. One of the first things I did was see if there was a pattern to the kind of stories I’d like to tell. (I am a computer-programmer by trade, so patterns are my thing.)

Here are some of the categories of stories I like to tell.

1. Small, tiny events that I cherish but will definitely forget. I have a really bad memory. And I have two young boys who grow up quickly and go through many phases. I love making layout pages about fleeting moments that feel so special but they are small and will immediately be forgotten.

Here’s a layout I made of my older boy back when he was a toddler. One day, while my husband and I were chatting, he opened twenty little squash balls and said “ball” every single time. We both laughed so much, watching him. This moment would have disappeared if it weren’t for the layout.

And here’s another one of my younger boy who didn’t like his legs to touch the grass so each time he sat on the yard, he’d hold his legs up a little so they wouldn’t touch. Another tiny moment captured.

2. Therapeutic and to help me get my feelings on paper. Scrapbooking has helped me go face so many of my emotions. There’s something magical about mixing paper and paint with deep emotions that’s magical. I feel so strongly about the healing powers of art that I started creative therapy a few years ago to ensure I would scrap these emotional topics regularly.

Here are two of my favorites. The first one is about my son when he was four months old and still not sleeping through the night and I was exhausted and very sleep deprived.

And here’s another after a particularly rough situation with someone whom I thought was my friend but realized otherwise.

3. Small/Special details from events. While I do try to capture them, I am not an event-scrapper. I don’t make tons of layouts about my kids’ birthdays or our vacations. What I do like to capture is some specific detail that makes the event special to me.

Here is one of my older son. On his third birthday, we bought him three little cakes with a candle on each. After he blew out the candles, he gave one cake to me, one to his dad and ate the third. I loved that he shared and wanted to capture that story.

And a recent one of my little boy turning one. He had this birthday hat that he kept wanting to take off so I wanted to make sure to scrap that story.

4. Things I need to remember. Advice. Scrapbooking really helps me remember things. It helps me keep track of my thoughts and my feelings. It helps me write down things that I want my kids to know.

Here’s a recent one of my son who helps out so much and because the little one needs so much help, I often forget that he’s just 5 himself, so I made this layout to remind myself to be gentler to him.

And one to remember how much he helps me and how thankful I am for him.

These are just some of the kinds of stories I like to tell. When I look through my pages and look at other people’s pages, stories like these are the ones that speak to me the most. Knowing this helps me capture more stories like these and create pages that will forever be meaningful to me.

What kind of stories do you like to tell? I urge you to spend some time thinking about the stories you like to capture the most. The stories you wish you told more. There’s nothing stopping you from making your layouts more meaningful to you.

You are Always on the Move

Journaling Reads:
You have such an adventurous spirit. You are always moving around and discovering new things without fear or trepidation. When we were at the pier ad Pacific Beach you didn’t show one ounce of fear. You just walked up and down with me chasing close behind you. I was scared the whole time but you were having so much fun that I could not bear to stop you. I love you my boy!

Tim Holtz Products used:
Lost and Found paper
Shabby Vintage paper
Alphabet soup Grungeboard
Spiced Marmalade Distress Ink
Barn Door Distress Ink
Tumbled Glass Sapphire Distress Ink
Sprocket Gears
Game Spinners
Trinket Pins

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The More Things Change The More They Stay the Same

I’ve been sitting on this for over a month now!! I am delighted to be a part of the write.click.scrapbook team! What an incredible honor!!

A new month means a new write.click.scrapbook gallery. This month’s challenge is inspired by Ze Frank’s Young Me Now Me. You can see the full gallery here! (And see it’s not a white background!!)

Journaling Reads:
Looking at these photos, it’s fascinating to see how much of this little girl is still inside me. I am still the pensive little girl who feels lonely more often than not. I still prefer to read over anything else and I still spend hours worrying. Some things have changed, too, like how much happier and more peaceful I feel now and my wonderful family, of course. But so much of me is still from that little, little girl.

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These are the Moments that make me realize it is Worth it

This was made for a Crate Paper contest a month or so ago.

Journaling Reads:
Having two kids is a lot of work. More noise, bigger mess, screaming, fighting, wrestling, and complaining. But then there are moments like this one. Small, tiny gestures of love that take your breath away. Like putting an arm over his shoulder as you watch Daddy mow the lawn. So simple and small and yet so significant. This is when my heart melts and I completely relax and realize it’s all so worth it.

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Us Right Now

During last August, Big Picture Scrapbooking held a summer promotion where we were sent a Cocoa Daisy kit and each made three pieces of art. Over the next three weeks, I will share my layouts.

Journaling Reads:
– chasing each other
– playing with legos and duplos
– walking and chewing things
– trying new foods
– video-charring with family often
– playing together
– learning to crochet a doily
– hugging
– going on date nights
– playing peek-a-boo
– playing with the tivo remote
– learning to ride the scooter
– loving daddy
– big fans of batman and superman
– practicing math and reading
– watching movies
– listening to audio books
– making silly faces
– kissing
– playing with the wii
– laughing together
– capturing and documenting our lives

Your Personality Always Shines Through Every Moment

This is made with the October kit from A Million Memories. I could not for the life of me get a non-crooked or even normal quality photo with this one. I am so sorry. I swear it looks much cuter in person.

Journaling Reads:
Little boy, you’re always so funny. You have such a strong personality. You dig through my things and find whatever you like and try it on and walk around with things and make funny faces. The headphones are among your favorites. You put them on and walk around dragging the cord with you and then you take them off. I love watching how you are so much of who you are already.

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Tim Holtz Giveaway Winner!

Thought I forgot?

11 was the lucky number so the winner is:

Stephanie
October 11th, 2010 at 9:48 am
Awesome giveaway – Karen. Thanks for the chance to win.

Stephanie, email me your address at karen AT karenika DOT com and i will send this awesome product your way!

More giveaways coming soon!

I Feel so Lucky that you Two Love and Adore Each Other

A few weeks ago Margie emailed me and asked me if I could do a few samples with one of her kits that were scheduled to sell on the Home Shopping Network (HSN). The kit had the Girls’ Paperie Paper Girl papers, ribbons, stamps, and die cuts. No alphabets! Can you imagine me doing a layout without alphabets? Well, I went off and bought the letter punch from MS and decided to step up to the challenge. I will post the 4 layouts I made in two days, over the next few weeks.

Journaling Reads:
If someone has told me that I would be lucky enough to get another happy, beautiful and sweet baby after David, I would have told them that the changes are low I get so lucky twice in a row. But here you are smiling and magical. I love you so much.

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You Have No Jealousy For Each Other Only Lots of Love

During last August, Big Picture Scrapbooking held a summer promotion where we were sent a Cocoa Daisy kit and each made three pieces of art. This is #2.

Journaling Reads:
Before Nathaniel was born, my mom warned that David would be jealous of him when he came. But she was wrong. My two kids are amazing. They play so well together and they hug and kiss. They only have love for each other. I hope it lasts forever and ever.

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I am Fully, Totally and Deeply Grateful

This is made with the October kit from A Million Memories.

Journaling Reads:
I know that having two kids means a lot of bickering and fighting and some of that has already begun but most of your moments are still filled with kindness towards each other. Especially David who is super patient with Nathaniel but also Nathaniel who is generous with his hugs and looks up to David so much. I am deeply grateful for your love for each other and feel blessed daily.

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I Thank My Lucky Stars Daily

A few weeks ago Margie emailed me and asked me if I could do a few samples with one of her kits that were scheduled to sell on the Home Shopping Network (HSN). The kit had the Girls’ Paperie Paper Girl papers, ribbons, stamps, and die cuts. No alphabets! Can you imagine me doing a layout without alphabets? Well, I went off and bought the letter punch from MS and decided to step up to the challenge. I will post the 4 layouts I made in two days, over the next few weeks.

Journaling Reads:
If someone had told me that I would be lucky enough to get another happy, beautiful and sweet baby after David, I would have told them that the chances are low I get so lucky twice in a row. But here you are smiling and magical. I love you so much.

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Tim Holtz Alterations Giveaway

I have an awesome give away today!

Here’s the description from scrapbook.com:
Textured Fades Embossing Folders from Sizzix easily emboss in such a way that select areas of the image appear perfectly faded and distressed. You can turn ordinary cardstock, paper, metallic foil or vellum into an embossed, textured masterpiece. This set of Embossing Folders showcases the bold and edgy style of Tim Holtz. It contains two large A2 folders, measuring 5 3/4″ x 4 1/2″ x 1/8″. Texture Fades Embossing Folders are for use with the Texture Boutique, BIGkick, Big Shot and Vagabond machines only (used with a pair of Cutting Pads and the machine’s included Platform). Each sold separately. This Texture Fades Embossing Folders Set includes these two folder designs: Halloween Night (A2 Large); Poison (A2 Large).

Isn’t it awesome!?!

All you have to do is leave me a comment in this post. I will keep it open for a week so your deadline is Sunday night. I will announce the recipient next Monday.