Drawing Books – The Last Thing he Told Me

The Last Thing he Told Me by Laura Dave
 

Daily Year of Yes – 145

Year of Yes – 145

In the middle of two simultaneous meetings this morning, I decided it was wise to pick up a phone call from my mom.

My mom who was calling to celebrate our wedding anniversary which we had completely forgotten about.

Within ten minutes, we had canceled my husband’s plans to go climbing with friends and booked a table at our favorite restaurant.

Which meant that for the first time in over a year, we got all dressed up and went out to a fancy restaurant and had a delicious dinner and wonderful conversation.

19 years of marriage. 26 years of being together and this man is still my sunshine. He sees me and loves me and is my best friend. We have spent more than half our lives together.

I am so grateful for the gift of getting to do life with him.

Thank you for reminding us, mom, we had a magical night thanks to you.

Yes to celebrating!

#yearofyes #karenikayearofyes

Drawing Books – Girls with Bright Futures

Girls with Bright Futures by Tracy Dobmeier and Wendy Katzman

Daily Year of Yes – 144

 

Year of Yes – 144

I was thinking today that after the year and a half we had, I am not actually ready to go back to “normal” life even as more activities are becoming possible.

I feel like when covid hit last year and all our lives changed, I went into “buckle down and get through it” mode. I did what needed to be done and made it through each day the best I could.

That didn’t come for free.

I’ve been accumulating stress and grief and loss and exhaustion for 15 months now.

And while I’m very very grateful to be able to possibly go back to normal again, I am so not ready for anything. I am not ready to commute, to take the kids to the bus, to navigate school meetings in person. I am not ready to act like all this was nothing. I am not ready to move to the next phase.

I need some serious down time. Some time where I am not worried about navigating covid life and still not just yet at the next phase.

Not sure how this will happen but I am feeling the need pretty acutely today.

I have to figure out how I can get some of the rest and recovery I so desperately need. This is not something a long weekend will cure.

Yes to acknowledging what is. Yes to moving through it and figuring it out.

PS: I also know that I am very lucky to even be thinking about life after covid when many others don’t have that luxury.

#yearofyes #karenikayearofyes

Say Yes – 21

  • Weekly Intention: This week will also likely be intense. There are a lot of decisions to be made and not a lot of time. My intention is to be calm and not take anything personally this week.
  • This month’s intention is: May: Yes Just Yes: Time to be bold. Jump in. Dare to go all in and see what happens. What happens if you say yes?! Let the experimenting begin.
  • One way I will leap this week: sending those emails.
  • One boundary I will set this week: hmmm maybe i will set one around not working late this week.
  • One area where I will go deeper this week: starting some kind of daily drawing/illustration/doodling
  • What do I need to sit with this week?  i need to sit with what comes next
  • I am looking forward to: a four day weekend.
  • Focus on Core Desired Feelings (lighter, kinder, enough, magic, wild): i am definitely feeling lighter and kinder and enough lately. I think I need more magic and wild in my life. [i think this holds this week, too]
  • This week’s challenges: navigating the new normal.
  • Top Goals: 
    • Work:  make a list of all the todos, stay on top of email, align around FoW.
    • Personal:  continue journaling plan, start illustration plan, do week in the life documentation, OLW journaling.
    • Family: be with J, book painters, encourage D for M, find a project for N.
  • This week, I want to remember: it’s ok to rest.

Review: Girls with Bright Futures

Girls with Bright Futures
Girls with Bright Futures by Tracy Dobmeier
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

3.5 stars

I thought I wasn’t going to like this book. I live a few blocks from Stanford and too many of the parents in this book are slightly over the top versions of parents around me. It was a bit close to home but I still enjoyed my time with it and really liked some of the subplots.

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Review: Life’s Too Short

Life's Too Short
Life’s Too Short by Abby Jimenez
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

3.5 stars.

Read this one in one sitting. It was fun, uplifting, engaging and a joy to read. I will likely forget most of it but it doesn’t matter, it gave me joy while I read it and that’s really all I seek from books like this. Recommended.

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Review: The Last Thing He Told Me

The Last Thing He Told Me
The Last Thing He Told Me by Laura Dave
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I loved this book. It was a super-fast read for me and I really really liked the main character. It’s sort of a mystery and sort of about parenthood, family, choices we make and the consequences we have to live with and what sacrifices we’re willing to make. I really liked it.

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Review: Mary Jane

Mary Jane
Mary Jane by Jessica Anya Blau
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

Ok so this was neither like Daisy Jones nor like Almost Famous. I feel like blurbs like this just do a disservice to the book since it sets the readers mentality into a particular expectation. Why would you do that when it will annoy the reader and then get your book lower ratings? If you put those expectations aside, this was an interesting book. It’s about a 14 year old girl who takes a babysitting job with a family in her neighborhood. This family is very different than hers and opens her eyes and mind in a lot of ways. I think there are several scenes that border on neglect and abuse and I had to suspend disbelief quite a bit, but I still found the story interesting and engaging.

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Review: The Perfect Daughter

The Perfect Daughter
The Perfect Daughter by D.J. Palmer
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

This was a perfectly acceptable fast-paced mystery with a slight twist which wasn’t a huge shocker (to me) but still interesting, especially exploring the multiple-personality disorder. It also covers topics around adoption, family dynamics, motherhood, etc.

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Weekly Reflection 2021 – 20

  • The Best Part of this Week: the best part of this week was hanging out with big boy on Saturday night.
  • I celebrate: making it through this week, it was quite a lot.
  • I am grateful for:  sunny weather and getting to spend a lot of downtime this weekend.
  • This week, I exercised: I climbed 3 times a week, rode every day for 15 mins and once for 60 minutes, did 10 mins of core and 10 mins of arms and 5 minutes of stretching and 10 minutes of restorative yoga daily. I also did week three of strength class which was 1 hour and 20 minutes of strength and 20 minutes of stretching this week.
  • This week, I said yes to:  going to work Monday and Tuesday.
  • I said no to: letting myself get carried away with all that’s going on at work.
  • I honored my values (love, learn, peace, service, gratitude): I worked hard all week to hold on to the feeling of grounded-ness and faith in the universe.
  • Top Goals Review:
    • Work:  went to IO, did not really make a list of all the todos, cleaned email.
    • Personal:  continued journaling plan mostly, started week in the life documentation, did OLW May.
    • Family: spent time with with J, didn’t book painters but got quotes, did help D with course list, did not find a project for N.
  • My mood this week was: all over the place
  • I am proud of: i am proud of how calmly i am able to navigate all this.
  • I release: all the things I don’t have control over.
  • Here’s what I learned this week: i get to decide my peace.

Daily Year of Yes – 143

Year of Yes – 143

It’s birthday season over here. Today is my nephews’ 22nd birthday. Yet another reminder of the passage of time and how lucky I am to get to see them grow into loving, kind and capable human beings. What a joy!

Sunday nights are usually not my favorite. But lately I am finding myself grounded and calm. This is likely the best gift the universe can give me.

Even though my 100 days of radical wellness has been over for a while, I’m still eating the greens and protein. I am drinking more water. I am exercising and doing art and journaling. And the restorative yoga continues to change my life.

I expect the next few months will bring a lot of change and uncertainty. Work, school, and reentry into life are all going to be transitions and I am usually not a fan of transition.

I plan to hang on to all this wellness I am grounded in and say yes to receiving it all with grace and an adventurous spirit.

Yes to what comes and yes to adventure. And yes to the guidance of calm.

#yearofyes #karenikayearofyes