Layout a Day in May – You and Dad

Ugh, not happy with how this turned out. But the colors in those photos were hard to scrap…. I do love the photos so much and I am pretty sure I will like looking at them for years to come.

Journaling is about how wonderful it is to watch two people you love more than the world laugh together and love each other so much.

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Day seventeen, baby!

Crafting with David – Thank You Cards

This week’s craft was another thank you card set and a little happy birthday one.

We gathered our supplies.

We wrote the insides first cause David had to write both his and Nathaniel’s name.

and he didn’t do so well on the first try.

Then he made the card for his teacher’s birthday.

And wrote the inside all by himself.

And then we finished the thank you cards.

They were Nathaniel’s birthday thank yous.

And that’s it this week.

Daily Diary – May 16 2010

And the weekend is almost over. Just a few more hours. Today was an uneventful day. I did my layout. I watched a few movies. I took a nap. I tried to relax and that was pretty much it.

The kids were in a funny mood. Tired and cranky and not in the mood to have photos taken.

Nathaniel did a lot of this.

And a bunch of this.

I am always sad when a weekend is over. Even when I work from home. Even though I love my job. It’s just stressful trying to balance it all.

Note to Self:
It’s amazing how much a thirty minute nap in the afternoon affects my day. I need to do this more often. I need to do it regularly. I took this course last year that talked so much about the importance of naps and rest, etc. And even though I know it mentally, I still don’t really follow it. I’ve been taking naps for the last few days and it makes my 4-6pm time so much more peaceful. It’s still not peaceful but considerably better and I feel less crazy and exhausted. I think if I napped more regularly and took a walk outside each day, I’d be a lot more productive and a lot less tired. (Probably eating more protein wouldn’t hurt either.)

Three Things I’m Grateful For:
1. I love watching movies so today I am grateful for some movie time.
2. I always want to keep my heels softer but I hate wearing socks, especially to bed so I have a problem putting vaseline on and putting socks on. Yesterday I had the brilliant idea of cutting the toes off my socks. So I cut them so that what’s left is a tiny bit of the sole and heel and ankle. Now it doesn’t feel like I am wearing socks so I can keep them on but they do cover my heels and keep them moist. win win! grateful for solutions that work.
3. Grateful that my sweet, wonderful hubby will be here in a few hours.

Two Things David’s Grateful For:
1. legos legos legos.
2. watching a new movie on his iPod.

Layout a Day in May – Taking More and More Steps

And number sixteen. This is inspired by Alexis Hardy. I am not sure I can keep going though, they are taking longer and longer.

Journaling is about how Nathaniel is taking more steps every day. Love the boy.

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Weekly Layouts – Big Bear

This is with the February Kit from A Million Memories.

Our much anticipated vacation to Big Bear was a total disaster. The seven-hour drive took fourteen hours and by the time we got there, everyone was tired, wiped, and grouchy. Our friends didn’t even make it until two in the morning. When we got there, we realized none of the phones had service. The next day, we decided that it was snowing too much for you to go skiing for the first time so the three of us stayed home while Daddy, Holly and Kendall went skiing. It was so bad that there were rolling blackouts and they got stuck on the lift for an hour. As if that wasn’t enough stress, Nathaniel got really mad at me that day and held his breath till he passed out. The next day, it had snowed over ten feet and they had shut down Big Bear ski lifts because of lack of power. The three of them spent the day shoveling because the snowplow never even came by. And then, to add more frustration into our lives, we lost power again and this time for good. We brought you and Nathaniel upstairs where the fire was and I spent the whole night staying up and feeding it logs so we wouldn’t freeze. Daddy slept on the floor and all three of you woke up several times throughout the night. By morning, we still had no electricity and got out of there as fast as we possibly could. Both you and Nathaniel got sick with fevers when we got home and then I came down with a cold, too.

In the midst of this terrible vacation, you, Kendall and Holly had a few minutes of joy playing in the snow and I am so glad that I captured those precious moments of fun because that’s what we had hoped for the vacation. You got to make snowballs, sled down the snow, and wrestle with Kendall in the snow. In the end, this is the part I want to remember most of all.

Daily Diary – May 15 2010

Happy Saturday.

Things were really quiet and uneventful today. After I did my layout, I needed to read this book and I spent the better part of today on that. I didn’t even like the book so it was a shame but oh well. It’s finished now.

Today was David’s Wii day so when I told him to give me a smile, this is what I got.

And then Nathaniel tried to distract him and give him some love.

But he wasn’t having any of it.

So Nathaniel went to find some other toys in his favorite place which is under the dining room table.

And he was definitely in good spirits for most of today. Yey for my boys.

I think I am going to head to bed before it gets any later. I hope you’re having a fabulous weekend!

Note to Self:
Today I am mostly thinking about kindness and being nice. I don’t think you can have too much of either. The genuine kind of course. My first question is always if someone is nice. Not intelligent or rich or famous or whatever. Just nice. If they are nice, I know I will like them. What do you think is the most important trait in a person?

Three Things I’m Grateful For:
1. Grateful that my book is finished (is that cheating?)
2. Grateful that my wonderful hubby comes back tomorrow. We love you babes.
3. Grateful that we all spent the day in our pajamas. Yey!

Two Things David’s Grateful For:
1. thankful for Nathaniel, he said.
2. Thankful for my daddy, i miss him. i’m happy he’s coming back tomorrow. he said his dad is the best dad ever and should be everyone’s dad.
(can you believe he didn’t even mention the Wii?)

Layout a Day in May – I Love Watching you Play

And LOAD number 15. Halfway there (almost!)

No journaling today. Sometimes it’s ok to do no journaling. Other times lots of journaling. I think both are ok. I am enjoying this now. Trying not to question it too much and criticize even less.

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52 Things – Put up photos of the kids in their rooms

Here’s this week’s item:

18. Put up photos of the kids in their rooms

David’s room already had some of his photos but not much art, so I now have some art and another “D”. The new art is this and this, both of which I adore. The little postcard about how great he is, is from Kal Barteski.

We also hung this awesome painting my friend Nicholas had gifted David a few months ago:

In Nathaniel’s room, I changed the bedcovers (which were 12 years old.) to something happier. This bed will eventually move to David’s room when Nathaniel moves to David’s bed.

He already had a bunch of art on his shelves, so I added some photos of Nathaniel that I love.

And here’s the other.

That’s it for the kids. I love seeing these shelves now. I also hung my photos outside their room in the hallways. Photos from San Diego, Turkey, Santa Barbara, Northern California, etc. Love seeing them when I walk upstairs.

Daily Diary – May 14 2010

Happy Friday! I hope your day was good. Quiet day here mostly. Jake left town to go to his brother’s birthday. Happy Birthday Danny!! We love you.

This photo is low quality but it shows exactly what Nathaniel likes to do which is to dig through a box of toys and just fling stuff he doesn’t like. I love that I got to capture it even if blurry.

And another one of my boy. I love him.

I love both of them so much. We went out to dinner tonight. Walked over to the restaurant, had a yummy meal and came back home. It was nice to get out and spend some time with my boys. I snapped this right before we went out.

And it’s already almost 9. I did take a short nap this afternoon so I am feeling a bit better but still too exhausted. And I have a 600-page book to finish this weekend. And my layouts etc etc. Oh well, whatever gets done, gets done.

happy weekend!!

Note to Self:
I did make a list last night. But I am still really taking it easy. Some things get done and others don’t. I am one of those people who really commits and does not like to give up on commitments (or people.) But the funny thing is, I have a lot of respect for people who know when it’s time to walk away from something. When to go in a different direction or when something is doing more damage than good or when something really is unsalvageable. People who understand the concept of sunk cost. Many years ago, I took this course where we talked about “strong suits” which are things that sort of make you who you are. Things you’re good at. And one of my strong suits is the “stick-with-it”ness I have with people and commitments and things. Often times I think a lot before I commit and then I religiously follow through. But sometimes circumstances change, people change, expectations change. Life changes. And sometimes it’s better and more mature to call it quits. (I am not talking about people who haphazardly commit and then walk away like it was nothing.) So I have a lot of respect for people who can assess a situation and know when to walk away. I need to get better at that.

Three Things I’m Grateful For:
1. Dinner with my boys. So nice to walk to dinner, sit outside, and enjoy my family.
2. It’s the weekend!!
3. Grateful for having no plans/obligations this weekend so we can spend it in our pajamas, playing and cuddling.

Two Things David’s Grateful For:
1. having mommy read a story
2. telling mommy a story

Layout a Day in May – Always Making Faces

out for publication, i will put it back when it’s up.

And now for something completely different. I was inspired by a stunning layout by Jen Jockish but it must not be my style at all because this layout took my hours to make and I am not happy with the results. Oh well. Can’t win them all. Another memory preserved after all and another layout in may done.

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Weekly Gratitude – My Feet

Journaling Reads:
They say life is in the details.

I don’t often take good care of my body. I don’t put on sunscreen when I go out. I don’t put moisturizer before bed. I often don’t take my makeup off before I go to sleep. Yet, despite my neglect, my body is really good to me. It tends to put up with all the abuse I give it. My feet carry my ever-fluctuating body without complaining.

A few months ago, I decided it was time to give a little back. So, for the first time in ten years, I went to get a pedicure. I wanted to pamper my feet a little bit. And pamper, I did.

What I didn’t expect was how much better the whole thing would make me feel. Seeing the little bit of color on my toenails, feeling the smooth skin, and just getting a quiet hour to myself made me happier than I would have imagined.

I don’t wear open-toed shoes very often so I am the only one who gets to see these toes but I don’t mind. They are for me, really. And each time I catch a glimpse, I smile.

A Book A Week – Easier Than You Think

I listened to Easier Than You Think in the car. I’d read Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff book a long time ago and remember it being useful. So was this. I wish i weren’t in the car so I could have taken notes. Most of it was common sense of course but still useful to remember and still useful to practice.

And, man, I so agree: Life doesn’t have to be so hard.

There are so many of these I loved. Like taking time for you (taking a vacation) everyday. Or Laughing everyday. Not taking notes. Doing something nice for others.

And here’s a great one. I am too lazy to type so here’s a screen shot. Joseph was someone who always had negative thoughts and worked hard to finally get rid of this habit.

Thoughts are just thoughts.