April 2017 – Fabric Sentiments – 2

You can read about the start of this project here.

This one says: if your compassion does not include yourself, it’s incomplete.

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Fabric Sentiments is a Monthly Project for March 2017. You can read more about my projects for 2017 here.

Living Intentionally 2017 – 14

Weekly Intention: This week promises to be much quieter than last week with very little back and forth hopefully. Even though next week is vacation for me, I will be quite busy so my intention for this week is to rest. I would like to intentionally work hard tomorrow so I can be ready for my work challenge on Tuesday and then try to rest as much as possible the rest of the week. Take it as easy as I can.

Things I want to get Done: 

  • One is to read all the packets and prepare for committee.
  • Two is to figure out our summer trip a bit more and find a different hotel.
  • Three is to finish all my little todos that are taking space on my mind.
  • Four is to spend some time thinking about what it means to shine.
  • Five is to pack and prepare for our trip next week.
  • Six is to check in with myself. To listen more than I talk.

This month’s intention is:  Shine Quietly: It’s crucial to take time to reflect. Take this month to reflect on how things are going. Is there anything you need to adjust/change/drop or pick up. It’s ok to shift things. It’s also important to acknowledge what’s working. Take the time to shine some light inward and see what’s going on. I love this. perfect timing. It’s time to redefine my approach to things.

Ways to Shine this week:

  • One: Bold: It will be bold if I can pull off resting as much as I’d like.
  • Two: Open: Open to receiving and listening on Tuesday.
  • Three: Heal/Nourish: I would like to spend some time thinking about what needs healing.

I am looking forward to: Thursday. To the quieter part of my week.

This week’s challenges: tomorrow for reading all the packets and tuesday for the all day work meeting.

Top Goals:

  • Work: packets. doing a good job tuesday.
  • Personal: resting. eating well.
  • Family: doing some research for the work I want to do with them.

I will focus on my core desires (bold, mindful, nourish, love) by: reaching within this week. paying attention to my thoughts and feelings and assumptions and expectations.

This week, I will say yes to: me.

This week, I will say no to: doing more than needed. feeling pressure. feeling less than.

I am worried that: i will do a bad job with the packets. i won’t stop feeling exhausted. my results will be negative. i will fail the people i love. i won’t feel better. i will make bad choices.

This week, I want to remember:  that it’s one day at a time. everyday i get to make new choices.

April 2017 – Fabric Sentiments – 1

For April, I decided I wanted to have some fun with fabric and ribbons. So I cut up little cards and just had fun. I also added sentiments that are meaningful to me. They are imperfect but have so much texture. These are cards I wish you could touch.

This one says: nothing holds you back more than your own insecurities.

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Fabric Sentiments is a Monthly Project for March 2017. You can read more about my projects for 2017 here.

Weekly Reflection 2017 – 13

Three ways I shone this week: Ever since I watched Ali’s video for One Little Word for April, I’ve been thinking about what it means to shine. How do I define it? When do I know I’m shining? How do I know I am shining? What do I look like when I shine? How does it feel to shine? I plan to spend a lot of April visiting these prompts. For now, I’ll say that:

  • I was there to support the little boy during this week which was a tough one for him.
  • I spent time socializing with friends on Friday, relatively new friends!
  • I got to have 1-1 time with each kid this weekend!

Things I wanted to get Done: 

  • I did get some sleep, but honestly still not enough. Though this week is looking a bit more optimistic.
  • I did book us a hotel and have an idea for sub-trip.
  • I paid for the schools. I also filed our taxes! woohoo!
  • Finished Q2 sheets!
  • Ordered some of what David needs for his upcoming trip.
  • Didn’t do so well with the smiling. Well didn’t do terribly but let’s say so-so.

I celebrate: being done with our taxes.

I am grateful for: i know i wrote about my husband last week but i am grateful for him all over again this week and it’s because he not only accepts but cherishes me for who i am. he doesn’t question the choices i make the shortcomings i have, etc. he just celebrates who i am. thank you my wonderful husband.

I nourished myself by: more fresh food. a lot of sitting in the backyard.

Reflecting on my worries: taxes are all done. one more paper to send but really done. thursday was totally ok. i made it through. i made it to book club. amazingly my right knee has actually stopped hurting! I am possibly dropping the ball on many things. so far, nothing bad has happened at work. nathaniel got better, then got sick, then seems to be getting better again.

I let go of: apologizing for what I don’t want to do and offering options i don’t actually want.

Core Desire Check-in (bold, mindful, nourish, love):

  • bold: i said yes to doing something hard at my son’s school next year.
  • mindful: i’ve been mindful of my mood lately. of feeling my feelings.
  • nourish: mixed bag still. eating a lot of salad and some protein but also still eating plenty of not so great things. 
  • love: i love all the bits of my life so much. i am so grateful for the small things like sunshine in my backyard and the big things like my healthy family and lovely job.

What made me laugh this week: More laughing with Tamara and Allie this week.
What I tolerated this week: it was another week of multiple trips to work. 

My mood this week was: rushed mostly but a calm weekend.
I forgive myself for: being who i am. i am often so hard on myself but that doesn’t really help me change.
What I love right now: i am loving audiobooks so much!

Here’s to a wonderful week fourteen. Hello April.

March 2017 – Everyday Magic – All

You can read about the start of this project here.

Here are all the photos from March.

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And here we are. Onwards to April. Seriously? April?


Everyday Magic is a Monthly Project for March 2017. You can read more about my projects for 2017 here.

Books I Read This Week 2017 – 13

I started my week with Celine which I’d been really looking forward to as I’ve liked both of the two other Peter Heller books I’ve read mostly because his writing isn’t what I usually pick up and this was no exception. I loved the story. I loved Celine. I enjoyed this book.

I then decided to finish the three middle grade books we needed to read for the Lit Club I teach. I finished  The Menagerie well after Nathaniel read all three books in the series. This is a cute, lovely book. I was disappointed in Number the Stars because it stayed so much on the surface of what I thought was a tough tough story. And Fuzzy Mud was okay. Not amazing but not terrible either. Interesing premise. 

After those, I read Stretch which I was worried wouldn’t be great, but it was. I enjoyed every moment of it. Instead od moving to fiction I felt like reading Harriet Lerner’s Fear and Other Uninvited Guests which was absolutely fantastic. I can’t wait to read more of her.

And I finished my week with Innocents and Others. This book was on my to-read list last year but I never got around to it. It has mixed reviews and I kept wanting to stop when I started but I pushed myself to make it through and in the end I really liked how the stories came together. I enjoyed this one more than I thought.

I’m hoping for some more fiction this week. An especially good one if I get lucky.


Books I Read this Week 2017 is a year-long project for 2017. You can read more about my projects for 2017 here.

March 2017 – Everyday Magic – 23

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This one says: if you can’t beat fear, just do it scared.

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Everyday Magic is a Monthly Project for March 2017. You can read more about my projects for 2017 here.

Nourish Me – 13

Here’s to drinking more water.

Mind:

  • I read: A lot of books this week but not much of anything else.
  • I learned: I am still woefully behind here, too. I had intentions but I used up the time with booking our trip. I will see if I can dedicate some during-the-week time here.
  • I watched: a little tv this week. i don’t really seem to miss tv all that much. no ted talks either, though.

Body:

  • Exercise: No exercise last week, I wanted to see if my knees were sicker than I thought. But they are not. So I am back to doing it this week.
  • Food: Still mixed bag this week. Ate some really heathy stuff and some really unhealthy stuff. 
  • Skin: still moisturizing and taking care of my skin. my heels are so soft and lovely thanks to the awesome cream i use.
  • Floss: still flossing. love love love my floss.
  • And More: got my hair done. 

Soul:

  • I rested: I am resting. I spent much of the past weekend resting. I am working on it.
  • I connected: with a lot of parents from David’s class. And Nathaniel’s new class.
  • I journaled: a little this week! i miss journaling but I also don’t. not sure what that means.
  • I made art: i finished all my april art and really enjoyed making it.

I think I need to rest more. I am going to see if the intention around slowing down does the trick to help me rest more this week. Here’s to hoping.

 

Nourish Me Week 2017 is a year-long project for 2017. You can read more about my projects for 2017?here.

March 2017 – Everyday Magic – 22

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This one says: this moment is all there is.

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Everyday Magic is a Monthly Project for March 2017. You can read more about my projects for 2017 here.

2017 Stories – 13 – STEM Fair

 

Last weekend was the STEM fair in David’s school. It’s a K-12 event and like most things this school does, it was absolutely mind-blowing. The sixth graders had 3 displays. One on ooblecks, one on making little drawing robots, and one on general relativity as in the photo above (oh and something cool with play dough and electricity you can see in the last photo.) Jake tells me the demo above demonstrates Einstein’s theory of how gravity is actually a stretching of space and time, not a “force” and the lycra shows how this works. I had to copy his exact words because I still don’t get it. Science was never my strong suit and I so so wish it were because the sixth grade was a tiny tiny fraction of this incredible day. They had robots, a whole math section, research papers, amazing chemistry demos and on and on. Professors from Stanford. I can’t even tell you because I don’t appreciate the awesomeness due to my lack of science education. But the kids did appreciate it. They walked around, they learned, they loved it. So did Jake who knows a lot more science than I do. 

I decided I needed to take a lot more science classes so I can actually understand next year.

So grateful that my sons get to experience all this!


Stories from 2017 is a year-long project for 2017. You can read more about my projects for 2017 here.

March 2017 – Everyday Magic – 21

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This one says: if you get tired, learn to rest. not quit.

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Everyday Magic is a Monthly Project for March 2017. You can read more about my projects for 2017 here.

Living Intentionally 2017 – 13

Weekly Intention: This week is mostly quiet with a challenging Thursday. It’s a combination of mundane tasks like taking David to the dentist and social events like Book Club and meeting a parent and a bunch of work. The intention I want for this week is to be slow. I always run run run and talk fast, move fast, do a lot, etc. There will definitely be some of that running around on Thursday just so I can make it to all my commitments but I still want to slow down as much as I can. I want to listen more than I talk. 

Things I want to get Done: I liked listing some of my big todos last week, so I decided to continue for a while.

  • One is to make sure I sleep even more than I did last week. I still feel really tired.
  • Two is to book the hotel for our summer and make a decision around whether we add another subtrip.
  • Three is to pay the kids’ schools for next year.
  • Four is to finish all the Q2 sheets for work. 
  • Five is to order all of what David needs for his upcoming trip.
  • Six is to keep smiling, keep looking for the good, and keep enjoying myself just the way I am.

This month’s intention is:  Rain or Shine: March is a tough month. You often feel like giving up in March. It feels too long. But it’s not. Keep going, You’re doing great. Remember that the trick is to just show up. Keep showing up. A lot of showing up this week, too. Book Club. Parents from both kids’ schools. To work for meetings. Dentists. Also showing up for my little boy who is sick and needs to stay home from school today.

Ways to Shine this week:

  • One: Bold: This week’s bold move will be to show up to hiking on Saturday.
  • Two: Open: Open to meeting new people, taking on new challenges.
  • Three: Heal/Nourish: I am going to go with exercise this week. I’ve totally stopped it and I would like to restart.

I am looking forward to: book club and book pick night. 

This week’s challenges: thursday starts at D’s school, then i go to N’s school, then I go to work, then I go back to N’s school, and finally I end up at the book store by my house. it will be a looong day.

Top Goals:

  • Work: q2 sheets. 
  • Personal: booking the rest of our vacation. getting D’s stuff. 
  • Family: actually starting a project with the boys.

I will focus on my core desires (bold, mindful, nourish, love) by: trying to be quieter this week. listen more closely.

This week, I will say yes to: taking new chances.

This week, I will say no to: listening to the negative voice inside me which gets triggered more than I’d like.

I am worried that: taxes will not be done on time. thursday will be a disaster. i will miss book club. my knees won’t stop hurting. i will drop the ball on something important. something bad will happen at work. nathaniel won’t get better.

This week, I want to remember:  that i need to focus on what matters most and not let people who don’t matter make it harder for me to be kinder to the people who do matter.